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3621 Well thank you for saying that this morning. it really made it clear where we are. Why should I wear a condom you never did and sure as fuck never gave two seconds thought to what it might do to me. So you keep talking to him all you want and do as you wish I'm no longer gonna let it...

This is the life ive chosen for myself has been chosen for me I can't tell her those things because I remember having that convo and she was clear then that the baby is more important than her and I can't live with that. If it comes down to it I want her over anything and risking her life for...

Thanks Galagirl. You are always so nice. I feel like I shit on everyone here. I went after what I want and 4 people were in tears because of me. Honest and upfront or not I hurt all of us. Only one in this whole situation that didn't get hurt was c. And I fear e is gonna hurt him becuase she...

So in a nutshell married 14 years to poly bi wife e. Personally been mono until about 3 4 months ago when she pushed for me to try dating and see if I like it. (In response to her guilt for dating a man for the first time since married per her) taking her word. Well I started with tinder but non...

Well first and foremost thank you for taking the time to clean that up. You are completely right I and we need counseling therapy something but when ibask about it for us I get a response of you can go to..... and it gets left there since I won't push my own agenda It was always understood that...

And what's really sad is ibwould feel a ton better if she would just day sorry I asked you for a divorce. But the closest I've gotten was an I'm sorry for the way I am.

Bizarre to say the least. Very hard to wrap my head around and I'm in it can only imagine how it looks from outside. She accepted when they only knew eachother 2 months had only been seeing eachother for about a month according to her so yea fucking bizarre and scares me about what the future...

I have apologized for my oversteps. Me and him have never spoke I've tried calling a couple times but he won't take my call or call me back and won't respond to texts. Such as hello this is me and I think we need to talk figure this all out. Beyond showing up at his house or showing up when...

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I have accepted this is our future mybiggest issue is not a v or what maybe it's getting over the shit in my head that he stole her as has been said no one can be stolen only given a place to go but I can't break myself of that thought. Thank you for being so supportive and straight with me it's...

Unsure what I did or didn't do that led to her feeling the relationship wasn't worth saving at the time. But I know I played my part. Got complacent during quarantine as we were basically stuck at home the last year. She's been working from home since March and litteraly saw me and the kid for...

Fair enough and I know she wouldn't have done it if she didn't want to and I think that's why it hurt when she tried to apologize after reading the letter for being who she is. Not for trying to leave.

Not a regular thing he is afraid of me I think because of the way things started and she knows I have a side that would do something but that's been checked and put away for years I used to be a fighter now I try to talk it out and walk away when I can't get through a thick skull or can't accept...

Not open for her I think I could be happy with someone who didn't try to steal my wife from me I understand what poly is in the most basic of grasps I knew things would get complicated I just didn't see it being that easy to walk away from me.

Open marriage agreed to only women but knew that was not really possible or fair. Open marriage with the understanding she could fall for someone was told only women but that was unrealistic and I knew it at the time. Then we would do the mono thing and i'd catch her playing with other men and...

Thanks Kevin Thanks Kevin yes you got it right I just don't see my future with out her in it so leaving is not an option for me.

So the new guy came in as a lie they started dating in Oct but she was saying it was someone else out of fear of me not being ok with men eventhough she's dated men in the past but hid him none the less and then accepted a marriage proposal from him start of Dec and asked me for a divorce we...

So I wrote a letter to my wife and before i give it to her can some one fix it so it doesn't run on and on as I always do. I just don't see where to break it at because I'm in it. And one of was really good at it. Please try not to judge me though you will, but please don't be mean about it...

12 26 2020 So I said fuck it today after you took off pushing me away as I really wanted to go with you but I realized you need your time too so I was sitting here where I always do and thought back to what I had seen and just said fuck it if I don't try she will leave and I will never have had...