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Thanks for the input everyone. I mostly reached out online because I wanted the opinion of people who didnt feel the need to be nice to me, if that makes sense! I have discussed the issues with other poly friends but getting advice from other people who don't know anyone involved is good too...

I'm not for a second imagining this as some great exercise in complete equality, like him having to keep a log of hours spent with us both! That would be ludicrous! What I mean by equal is that I hope there would be a general idea that we would be treated as equal in terms of time spent with...

So David and I will buy a house. It may be with David on the mortgage as well, or I may buy it essentially as a solo purchase and then charge David rent (don't worry, I have no intention of leaving him out of rights on the property, we're going to get something signed with a solicitor). It may...

But its not "fate" that decides this stuff, its the collective decision making of the three people. Ultimately, the buck does stop with David, as he's the one in the middle of the pivot. My biggest issue with the situation and the reason for reaching out for advice is that I think we're in a...

I understand that my position is more flexible then hers for sure. That's part of the reason I wanted to engage with her, so I could figure out where to live in a way that would limit the impact on David. I have no issue with moving to a place near where she settles (that being said, I'd quite...

Hi everyone, new to the forum. I have some concerns which I wanted some advice about in my poly situation. I'm going to change everyone's names for obvious reasons. I'm Rose, and I'm in my late twenties. My partner David and I have been in a relationship for around 3 and a half years, he's...