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Yes. R let A take reigns just to appease her and regrets that he did. I never blamed him for what happened as R seemed to be as out of the loop and I was the closer we got and more we spoke to each other. A would tell us one thing, but actually felt or meant the opposite. It was always walking...

Pretty much A seemed to dictate what was allowed with little to no input from what R wanted. A could go and be with whoever she wanted, but R was only allowed to be with A or A and I together. However, that is not what she initially told me about the dynamic. It was told to me that it was all...

I am in a similar situation now, where after leaving a triad I realized I was added at a horrible time and was the 'bandaid' relationship meant to try and fix their failing marriage. The soon-to-be-ex wife was verbally and mentally abusive to her husband and I, and while asking for space, pushed...

So it had been told to me that A and R were both poly, but it came to be seen that A was allowed to have other partners where R apparently could not. A did not want to lose R to someone else. That's exactly what A does. She says one thing but expected both R and I to mind read what she really...

Hey all. My name is Ismay. I got into my first polycule back in March and for a while it was fantastic. I had joined into a couples relationship with a friend-A and her husband-R. I was told it was a healthy and stable relationship. I have been poly for years, but this was my first time getting...

Hey all! My name is Ismay. I've been poly for about 8 years and only recently got into my first poly relationship which took a horrible turn, became verbally and emotionally abusive, caused me to lose someone I thought was a friend, and gain a wonderful partner. I'm so glad I found this site as...