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No the lack of sensation is on my part, and it's something that I have noticed recently. I actually did ask that they stick to the average size toys, but I don't think that is the case.

I'll word this the best I can. Has anyone had a problem with the loss of physical sensation when their partner uses large toys with their other partner? I am looking for ideas on how to fix this.

If my wife is unable to commit herself to our original agreement, then that will need to be addressed. I'm still hopeful that she will understand this is not what we discussed, and will try to make some corrections. But if that is not the case, then we will need to renegotiate the terms of our...

My wife would definitely be in the same boat. This will all come up at some point if she wants to continue in her current course. I will wait and see how our group conversation goes and then make a decision on how to proceed.

I would like to think the three of us can sit down and come an understanding.

This all came up last week. I stated very clearly that the way they are now is as far as I was going to allow, or I would be out of it. She asked what that meant. I said if they tried to get more involved, meaning more time together, overnight stays, etc., that I would no longer give my consent...

I would have to say my wife does not want true poly, she has made it very clear that she is not liking the idea of her partner starting other relationships. She wants me and her partner to be all hers. I think she is going to get a very harsh reality check, at some point.

My wife is still very much committed to me and our marriage, but she is also really enjoying her new freedom and the NRE. And I think at times she lets it go to her head and forgets the agreement that we had in place. As far as the kids go, she is still just as attentive, and is always there...

I just wanted to give an update. As of about 5 days ago, my wife's partner and her wife have decided to divorce. My wife thinks that eventually this will end her relationship with her, because she will be looking for more time and commitment. I also let my wife know that their relationship had...

I do know this is not a cheat-and-hide-it case. Her wife just doesn't like the whole thing. It's complicated for everyone involved. Some people have even told her to break it off and find someone different that fits with what we both want, with less baggage.

She had dropped small hints for last couple of years, but they were always more like jokes, so I never picked up on them. And no, she did no research, but I have from day one, and if I bring things to her that I have read, such as poly hell, or other situations that others have been through...

We have 2 kids, 12 and 16. Our 16-yr old daughter does know about it, but we have decided to keep it from the younger one for the time being. I have said that more structured means devoting specific days and and multiple overnights to her partner. If our marriage and our family is the priority...

As it is right now they see each other typically twice a week once for lunch date or something of that sort and again for a night out. I have stated that I can deal with that much commitment, but if it ever became a much more structured poly relationship I would be done. Maybe this seems a...

Ok so she has had these feelings for a very long time, but they came out after we had been together for 19 yes. After she asked me about ENM I rwd everything I could find and sent many messages to other people from the poly community. She on the other hand did not and went a dating app to a...

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I would like to clarify I asked my wife to see women only bc that is why she asked for ENM. She then didn't want me to date others saying I was hers and hers alone so I was asking the same of her, not to get attached and have any strong feeling so she would be mine and mine a lone. I didn't...

Thank you for your response, it helps getting the perspective of others that are in the same situation and know more than I. I have a lot of work to do and it's something that I will do bc I am still committed to my wife and our marriage. Getting advice seems to be helping the most right now...

It really was I know we were both very new to this and my request for no feelings was probably never going to work. Several other people have suggested that we make a new arrangement where we each have one other partner, this will help me not totally focusing on her and her partner and all the...

So I am in the latter category, when my wife asked for ENM it was so she could satisfy her desire to be with another woman, not other men. So she asked that I stay mono bc I already have a women at home, this is one of the hardest things that ideas dealing with no that I want to date but I had...

I didn't think you have any hard facts about this, I guess I don't know what I wanted to hear.