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Hi Everyone, I am sure there are great examples out there, but I cannot find them. Thought I would ask here. When considering whether polyamory (and/or open marriage) is the right choice, what questions do you think people, specifically married couples, should ask themselves, both to be sure it...

Thank you, everyone who replied. What a great community. I did my own soul-searching. I am not good with emotions. And maybe it is because I am a man, but I rarely need to cry, because I don't see its value as a go-to tool for emotional expression. I prefer to think and talk it out. But...

I get what you are saying. It is less that we are unhappy in our marriage, and more that there are things I cannot or will not give my wife. I am actually perfectly okay with her finding those things outside our marriage. She may only be looking for friendship, and the only way she knows how is...

Thank you for your response. I am really good at working through my feelings and getting to their roots.... normally. I'm not really a runner, and fighting sounds worse. 😅 My wife is having a really good time, and even if I don't want to end this poly journey, I think we need more time to work...

I don't actually know I want monogamy. I always thought we would explore this together. We do everything together. Now she wants to do this on her own. Reading another response, that dependency on each other will be a big issue as we go down this path. We love each other, have a full sex life...

That was a new article to me, and a good one. I never thought about the fact we have been each other's everything for over a decade. It was rare we went out without each other. We are each other's best friends, and that was supposed to be the point. But they are right. It doesn't make sense or...

Hi Everyone. After many years of honest discussions, my wife of over 10 years and I decided to try polyamory. We are taking it really slow and just starting with online stuff, trying to work out the feelings. That is why I am writing this post. Nothing I will say is new to the community, but...