hersweetleaf
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hi. I am new obviously and am grateful for this forum.
so basically, I am a 30 year old married female, married to my hubs (31) for 4 years, together a solid 10 years. we have a great relationship, hes my best friend and even when he makes me mad, he makes me laugh.
this all started when I tried to bring up spicing up our sex life (how cliché). which went straight to a threesome. after talking for hours and hours and days and days about the logistics, the feelings, the everything. we decided we would go out. our first night, we went to a strip club, then to a few bars. the last place we went for the night near our house, was the place we met...lets call her, Aura.
hubs and i saw her, and he didnt think too much of her, but i did. I knew she was going to be the one, hence her name "Aura" since her aura was super blue and purple to me. I approached her at the bar, and bought some pull tabs to break the ice. we were having fun chatting and pull tabbing, then her bf came up. he was talking to her like she was a piece of shit. I didn't like him right away. he eventually left us be, and all three of us were talking and such. but since we had a baby sitter, we had to go. I asked her to walk me out, and I gave her a peck on the lips and left (with her number of course). she seemed really receptive.
and heres where it gets complicated. so, after meeting with her once after that, and hardly talking (she does have a life too), we meet up, and its amazing. it wasn't weird, we met a a bar to play some erotic photohunt, and chill. we were going to ask her back to our place, but she had to go dance with her stupid boyfriend, talk about feeling ditched.
after a long time of trying to talk to her, but never responding, we were almost done trying to talk to her. she was always busy, and never communicative so it was feeling like we were just bothering her you know? so we made plans to hang out, we didn't think she would get a hold of us and would stand us up, but she didn't. she met us at the bar and we had fun. after we decided to go back to our place.
we DIDNT do anything. nothing sexual was done, but instead hubs and I talked to her and told her exactly what we were looking for and that we started off as a booty call/threesome action, but after meeting her, we kind of fell in love. feelings started happening, and after all was put on the table on all parts, she seemed much more receptive. she asked questions, we chilled on the couch and watched walking dead after we ate dinner, it felt natural. it felt good.
at the end of the night, we all hugged and all kissed good bye. it was nice. it felt...right.
in all my years, I never knew I could open up like that. to not be jealous when another woman is talking to my man or even kissing! but it was the opposite. I was happy seeing him comfortable enough to kiss her, and it felt good because I know we are in a super strong relationship with each other.
the only downside, is the "boyfriend" (kind of broken up but still hang out together situation?), and we are kind of a secret to him. that's the only draw back, besides her being 23!!! uff da. (I know im going to hear about the bf thing haha)
anyways, long winded I know. but there was a lot to say. im not sure what im asking or what im trying to get across, or if this will ever really turn into a relationship like my husband and I are hoping for. im just glad that theres this forum for help. thank you!
hi. I am new obviously and am grateful for this forum.
so basically, I am a 30 year old married female, married to my hubs (31) for 4 years, together a solid 10 years. we have a great relationship, hes my best friend and even when he makes me mad, he makes me laugh.
this all started when I tried to bring up spicing up our sex life (how cliché). which went straight to a threesome. after talking for hours and hours and days and days about the logistics, the feelings, the everything. we decided we would go out. our first night, we went to a strip club, then to a few bars. the last place we went for the night near our house, was the place we met...lets call her, Aura.
hubs and i saw her, and he didnt think too much of her, but i did. I knew she was going to be the one, hence her name "Aura" since her aura was super blue and purple to me. I approached her at the bar, and bought some pull tabs to break the ice. we were having fun chatting and pull tabbing, then her bf came up. he was talking to her like she was a piece of shit. I didn't like him right away. he eventually left us be, and all three of us were talking and such. but since we had a baby sitter, we had to go. I asked her to walk me out, and I gave her a peck on the lips and left (with her number of course). she seemed really receptive.
and heres where it gets complicated. so, after meeting with her once after that, and hardly talking (she does have a life too), we meet up, and its amazing. it wasn't weird, we met a a bar to play some erotic photohunt, and chill. we were going to ask her back to our place, but she had to go dance with her stupid boyfriend, talk about feeling ditched.
after a long time of trying to talk to her, but never responding, we were almost done trying to talk to her. she was always busy, and never communicative so it was feeling like we were just bothering her you know? so we made plans to hang out, we didn't think she would get a hold of us and would stand us up, but she didn't. she met us at the bar and we had fun. after we decided to go back to our place.
we DIDNT do anything. nothing sexual was done, but instead hubs and I talked to her and told her exactly what we were looking for and that we started off as a booty call/threesome action, but after meeting her, we kind of fell in love. feelings started happening, and after all was put on the table on all parts, she seemed much more receptive. she asked questions, we chilled on the couch and watched walking dead after we ate dinner, it felt natural. it felt good.
at the end of the night, we all hugged and all kissed good bye. it was nice. it felt...right.
in all my years, I never knew I could open up like that. to not be jealous when another woman is talking to my man or even kissing! but it was the opposite. I was happy seeing him comfortable enough to kiss her, and it felt good because I know we are in a super strong relationship with each other.
the only downside, is the "boyfriend" (kind of broken up but still hang out together situation?), and we are kind of a secret to him. that's the only draw back, besides her being 23!!! uff da. (I know im going to hear about the bf thing haha)
anyways, long winded I know. but there was a lot to say. im not sure what im asking or what im trying to get across, or if this will ever really turn into a relationship like my husband and I are hoping for. im just glad that theres this forum for help. thank you!
