I too am dealing with the realization that I cannot live a poly lifestyle if I want to stay married to my husband. He doesn't want it and I do. We've struggled with this terribly for the last two years and been in therapy now for over a year about it...we keep talking about divorce but neither one of us wants that right now. I've been very depressed. I have gotten really into my career and volunteering as a method for dealing with my depression.
