An accidental Poly

[inlove2x]

Just wanted to introduce myself. I'm a chick from the PNW now living in middle TN. Married (happily) for 11 years with two boys. About three years ago I fell in love with a girl while hubby traveled for work. (He used to be gone ALOT from anywhere between 4 and 15 months) Of all the times he's left us I have never ever caught or even thought about catching feelings for someone else...and in my whole life I've never been attracted to girls. There's something special about this one though, we have this crazy connection I've never experienced.
Was honest with the hubby throughout the development of mine and her relationship and we decided to give polyfidelity a try...however it's been a rough and winding trail and I am feeling very lost.
I guess Im here for advice and just to feel like I'm not the only one out there struggling with this situation. And maybe for a glimpse of hope because right now I'm feeling very hopeless.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings inlove2x,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Sorry to hear you're feeling lost, is it anything in particular? I always follow the intro threads in case you want to ping me here, and if you post in the Poly Relationships Corner or whatnot perhaps you could paste (in this thread) a link to that thread, then I'd know to follow it. But there's a lot of good people on this site and most posts will get lots of responses.

I'm sure there's a glimpse of hope, we just have to figure out where to look to find it.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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