After a couple of months of unsuccessful OKCupid dates, I've met a great married poly couple who are part of a local group. I've dated her (the wife, Y) a few times, and things are going great. We're very compatible. Y has other loves, as well. I might be dating her other GF soon.
Our poly worlds intersected because I was (and am still sporadically) dating CC, who has been long term with J. And Y has been dating J for a short while now. She messaged me and asked if the other girl I was dating was CC, and we laughed because it's a small poly world.
Anyway. I went from nothing, to being part of something. And loving it.
Anyway. I went from nothing, to being part of something. And loving it.