Are we the oldest

[travelcouple]

We live on a sailing boat. And travel around Europe mostly. On rivers and the sea. We are 60. maybe too old for a new life. We have been together for 18 years and we enjoy are life traveling around we have visited most capital cities of Europe that you can reach from the water. We are fit and active. Sonds a great success.We have a good life but we were never good together in bed.We kind of excepted our life is more important than the sex. Ime kind of bi and my partner has had bi relationships.But nothing for our 18 years together. Then last year a friend and his wife split up.He was devastated. So we invited him for a few weeks with us. He came and we had a few days sailing. And we sat down and drank some wine and talked he was lonely so we drank more wine and took him to our bed. He soon cheered up there. It came light we were all still at it.. He stayed for 10 weeks and we didnt get much time for sailing. We couldnt believe his sex drive.After he was gone we felt sad like we had lost something. He had to go back to work and in the end his wife and family. We understand but miss him. We looked at date sites but ws are 60 and we get loads of offers they wont a quick roll and go. And usualy 40ish too young for us. Its nice the idea of experimenting. But we dont think it can work without being around our age.So looking we found polyamory. And had never known about it at all. It wont find us the man we want. But sure good to know theres other people like us.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings travelcouple,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I know of a few older members right offhand: Oldpolyman, maxnsue ... emm, possibly Magdlyn, nycindie. Well and I'm no Spring chicken either, I'm pushing 50.

Wow, life on a boat; many people would envy you. Sorry to hear the guy who stayed with you had to leave though. Who knows the best way to find new partners? Love is so hard to find, at any age and in any situation. Perhaps it is enough to know for now that polyamory is out there, and that you have friends here on Polyamory.com that can discuss the topic with you and brainstorm for ideas.

Glad you could join us, in any case.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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