Bakon's trip

I'll admit, I'm panicking just a bit as this is my first time having a girlfriend on Valentines and there's not a lot out there for three people.
You could give them separate gifts suited to their personality. Or you could just ask them if they want to celebrate Valentine's day together and opt for a day or night out?
I'm not sure? I wouldn't be offended if they didn't get me anything but I don't want to hurt their feelings. I wish I had thought about it and asked before hand, but it's kinda late now. And the fact they haven't said anything probably means it's not that important, but I miss hints VERY EASILY.
They probably would have said something if it was really important.
My partners for example: for Magnet is Valentine's day everyday. Sabre cares about all the milestone stuff and pampers people, and Laboucle couldn't care less. Myself? I'm a mix of those. Just do what feels right. It's the thought that counts. No one is going to to say no to a bouquet of flowers!
 
I am alive!

It has been incredibly busy in my life recently. Quite a few changes, not all of them positive unfortunately. Add in projects for classes and, well, any time spent on the internet is time that I should be catching up on my daily recommended three hours of sleep.

Anyway, Khloe, Hazel and I have fallen into something of a routine at this point. I spend more time over at their place than I do my own honestly. Which I don't mind terribly because one of my roommates is only marginally compatible personality wise.

The last month+ have been something of a revelation to me. On the positive end, I am learning a lot more about Hazel and Khloe and getting out to socialize more often. I have been told that I smile more now-which does make me wonder how bad the RBF was before. Heck, I think I'm actually healthier since we go to the gym together.

On the other hand, I'm realizing that my communication skills are not particularly great and get worse the more tired I am. I also discovered that I do get snappish when that happens. It's been a bit of an adjustment having expectations for time from other people.

And Valentines turned out well, even with me having a bit of a freak out. I actually went to a Wicca store I know in the area and got us matching jewelry. A ring for me, a choker for Hazel so she could wear it while doing sports if she wanted to, and a bracelet for Khloe, all with Celtic knotwork leading to a Trinity knot. It wasn't terribly expensive, but they loved it!

It has been good, if draining. I hope to be a little more regular on this site and less of a lurker, but I make no promises.
 
Word to the wise: if you see something a little hinky going on with someone, talking to them about it is a good idea. Get a better picture of the situation, maybe give some advice, show you care a little and all of that. If the person happens to be a college student though, please
F O R T H E L O V E O F G O D
do not start that line of questioning with "Are you cheating?" I am in fact severely over-caffeinated and you sre going to be responsible for the CPR!
 
Well. This is a thing. Told the girls one of my brothers was going to be in town on Thursday for his work. Asked if they wanted to meet him with me. Now they're freaking out. Like a lot. I get wanting to make a good impression, but this seems a little excessive? Hazel is practically having a nervous breakdown and Khloe has gone through her drawers and closet like twice now.

I tried telling them that it really wasn't that big of a deal, we're just getting hamburgers and it was optional if they didn't feel ready yet. It didn't help.
 
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