Bi male, seeking polyamorous couple
- Thread starter Martmak
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Hello Martmak,
I don't know what all you have tried in your search, there are poly-friendly dating sites, Feeld and OKCupid are two that I know of. You have something very specific in mind, so naturally finding it will be challenging. Keep trying, and have the patience of Job.
Regards,
Kevin T.
I don't know what all you have tried in your search, there are poly-friendly dating sites, Feeld and OKCupid are two that I know of. You have something very specific in mind, so naturally finding it will be challenging. Keep trying, and have the patience of Job.
Regards,
Kevin T.
I moved your post to its own new thread.
Where do you "go out" seeking this perfect couple?
It is hard enough to find one person to really click with, much less a ready-made couple, both members of which are interested in you and attracted to you, and whom you find equally attractive.
It is far easier to date people as individuals. Just because you're bisexual doesn't mean the only way to get your needs met is to date one person of each sex. (I am pansexual, but the idea of dating a couple never appealed to me.)
If you are just seeking casual sex with a MF couple, there are swinger sites for that. But if you want real, long-term, romantic and loving relationships, date people, not sets of genitalia.
You could do years of seeking and dating to find this perfectly compatible couple. And if you find a couple, and start seeing them, they might have issues of their own around "sharing you," such as being jealous, envious, vying for your attention, just for starters.
I know some bi males only want sex with a MF couple, because that is their kink, so to speak. Maybe they aren't completely comfortable with having sex with a guy, and feel they want or need a woman there too, every time they have sex, to "normalize" things in a somewhat hetero way. I mean, you can find this in porn. But in real life, this kind of couple is not so common. So you might want to revise your expectations.
Some women might have a MFM threesome sex experiment on their bucket list. But if she's straight, she might not want the guys to be into each other.
Maybe you'll get lucky some day.
As a person wanting to date a couple, you could be seen as a "male unicorn." But beware. There is this thing called "couple privilege." You might just be seen as a shared sex toy, and not a full human being with feelings and personal desires.