Blowjobs

[LaminarFlow]

I think one or both of them when things get a little heated or triggered don’t mind exchanging low blows. It’s their pattern.
I think those lessons are still being learned with the op and her husband. This whole conversation may have started off / kicked off super innocently by how he sleeps better with his gf. He over shares the thing about blow jobs ( maybe not so innocently throwing a soft punch knowing her disgust for that ) she gets triggered and throws a snarky come back of gagging and throwing up at bed time which leads him explain further and correct the record.

Yes ….Everyone has to make their own mistakes . My point is when you sign up for this relationship dynamic a lot of this stuff comes with the territory. Facts are going to be facts…do ask questions if you can’t handle the honest truth.


After reading her 2 of her other threads I’d say trading punches is their communication style.



Ok there’s NO universal taste for you but you are in the universal it tastes bad correct ?

I’m guessing if everyone tastes different and we’re going off a large or larger sample size then the individuals himself changes in taste by Diet and exercise and how frequent said fluid is released.

Clearly in this context it matters because “ bragging “ about that with past bfs and or current bf and then refusing to do the same with her husband breeds a different kind of resentment. I don’t know if there different kinds or levels of resentment based on rejection but it personal.


I don’t think anything got lost in translation. He either couldn’t control is flow good enough or he selfishly popped one too many shots into her mouth which killed it for him. A simple tap or vocal cue can announce delivery.

Yeah, forget what I wrote. I didn't see the other threads, I'm thinking this is way more than just a communication style issue.

 

[King_Of_Cunni33]

I know the title is crude but I cant dance around the issue I am having... Blowjobs. I don't know if it is okay to talk about this here or if I need to censor the details. If so, let me know, and I will edit out the gritty details.

Ok, where do I start? My husband and I got in an argument and things were said that cannot be unsaid and I do not know how to feel, how to proceed, or if this is normal...

Many years ago, when my husband and I started dating, I bragged about loving to give my ex blowjobs, and it caused some friction, through which I learned a thing or two about oversharing with my husband. I did, at the time, try to respond in kind by giving my husband blowjobs, as well. But there is just one little thing-- his semen just plain tastes awful. It literally gags me when he finishes in my mouth. That is not an exaggeration. It triggers my gag reflex and sometimes I vomit. So, over the years, we have stopped doing it and I think he feels rejected by it, or jealous of my ex. I'm not sure. We don't talk about it anymore.

Recently we were speaking carelessly and he let slip that his gf doesn't like to have sex late at night, but "always" gives him a blowjob before bed because it helps him sleep. I was literally shocked, and blurted out something about how gagging before bed must make it harder for her to sleep. Anyway, it blew up because he was offended and defensive. Apparently, this woman just loves going down on him and likes the way he tastes. Apparently, if he could spend every night with her, that would be just perfect for him, because she blows him nightly, and he just sleeps so well at night with her.

Am I just out of touch here? I thought blowjobs were more of a special occasion thing, like okay, it's your birthday, big boy! Are daily blowjobs a thing? Is he lying? Is this about me, and our oral sex issues? Is she really giving him blowjobs every single night they are together? I do not know what to make of this or how to feel.

first I commend you and appreciate a woman like you. I love receiving head but giving cunnilingus is my passion in life lol. But I am the same way and if she's not smelly good down there or its Rank or plain tastes bad that is a sign something is off with them. Semen and sperm production depends on many factors but two of the biggest are what foods you eat and what drinks you consume and whether you drink any water. If your husband eats healthy, exercises and doesn't consume loads of sugar sodas or alcohol than he should be relatively mild or even an acquired taste. I am a vegatarian myself but I mostly eat fruit lol I have a lot of girls since going that diet route seem to really enjoy giving head and sucking out the last drops so to speak and I love kissing her after and I must say I do taste good lol

so if he eats junk food , drinks soda or alcohol or juices, processed foods, frozen foods, basically anything made in a factory and packaged, than that is likely the source of his foul tasting sperm\\

also head is not a special occasion but should be considered part of a regular sexual regimen if the partners desire this. the woman who feels that giving head should be special occasions only or birthdays ...I D0NT WANT Any head from. because then it is a chore and not given with the same intent but rather reluctance.] side note, because I love sex and women I am always trying to improve myself to improve her pleasure and experiences and this also means research and educatiUNG YOURSELF