I’m from a conservative world! According to some internet survey we have lots of porn site visitors but sex is always a hush hush topic. We are not big on public display of affection. We seldom talk about relationship problems among friends. That we do with our elders to have some advices.
I’m 19. I think I’m polyamorous. But I was told I still have my milk teeth (baby teeth) how I can have a relationship. I am also told in my age it is miracle to be in a monogamous relationship let along polygamous. May be they are right. Nevertheless, I’ve two relationships with two different women.
I met a woman, almost a decade older than me, on the street. Neither of us was looking for any relationship. We just met. A relationship was formed. At the time I was looking for a place to move from my parents’ home. When the relationship was one month old I moved in with her. Let’s call her Pleiades.
She is married and has a set of little twin girls. Her husband is a friendly gentleman. We talk politics and sports all the time. I’m their paying guest, a lodger. Since it is a conservative world we don’t show in any way that Pleiades and I’ve any kind of relationship beside the usual renter and lodger relationship. It is a secret.
When I moved in everything was fine. Then slowly I realized Pleiades and her husband were having financial difficulties. Pleiades’s husband salary is pretty good. But economy is doing better and rapidly booming. The city is full of entrepreneurs. They are driving prices up. More than one third of the salary is usually spent on rent and then the utility bills. Food prices are also up. Within a year food prices have increased three folds. Last year we had two big natural disasters. Farming lands haven’t recovered yet. Foods we had plenty to feed ourselves are now being imported. Ordinary consumers are feeling the pressure. Pleiades’s husband had his salary increased. Actually entire pay scales everywhere were redrawn. But it was inadequate. Pleiades is a housewife. So it was tough for them. They have never discussed their financial situation with me. I didn’t ask either.
When I was fifteen I started my own business. At first, I wanted to see if I could do it or not. Then it was just for fun. Now it generates good money, more than the ordinary salaried persons take home income. So I started to do groceries. If I saw a utility bill in mail box I would pick that up and pay. If they asked I smiled and never asked them for money.
Twins and I get along great. I also buy things for the twins here and there. Sometime I babysit them. I take them to schools. I’ve a bike and the school is on my way to my university. I also chaperone them, go to new restaurants. I also take them to theme parks. We have two just outside of the city. Those are luxury for middle class family.
I also buy things for Pleiades. Dresses I’ve bought for her are pretty expensive. Some of those dresses cost more than her husband’s monthly salary. I’ve also bought gold jewelries. I took her to places which are also very expensive. To be honest, her husband’s income has never come to my mind when I was doing these. I wasn’t showing off. I wasn’t trying show I was better than her husband. I was only trying to make her happy, taking my girlfriend to nice places, doing things she had never done. I was also trying to make my girlfriend’s children happy.
I’ve found Pleiades is good with needle and thread. She has eyes and mind of designer when it comes to clothes. I’d suggested her to open her own boutique shop. She understood it could improve their financial situation. She has never discussed their financial condition but I’ve felt she’ll require loan. Bank only give money to people who has something bank can take away if situation arises. She didn’t tell me but I realized she didn’t have anything put down as collateral. Moreover, Pleiades isn’t much educated. Bank wouldn’t help her. So I offer my money as loan. She opened a boutique shop. I told her to expand and make it bigger. Then she can pay me back.
I help her to manage her shop finance. I stay with her when she deals with her suppliers. I spent a lot of time with her these days. I also spent a lot of time with her children. Sometime I take them to my place of work. Her daughters and I study together. If no one is present those girls starts playing instead of studying. Pleiades is busy with her shop and her husband at her job. I stay with them when I’m available.
Now I’m getting different kind of vibe from Pleiades’s husband. We are still good. But I’ve this strange feeling. Sometime I feel I’m unwanted. Sometime I feel he doesn’t want me around. Our conversation is smaller than before.
I’ve another girlfriend (or something like that). She is twice my age but we are very good friends. It is also physical. She helps me with my tax. From above it seems my government doesn’t like me to pay tax for my business. But the rules are pretty weird. I’ve discovered some laws are written a century ago and I fall under those laws. When I read those laws I feel like I don’t know my own language. So I hired a lawyer. Let’s call her Moon. I know pleasure with business is not a good thing. In my defense, I was strictly professional with her. It was her who started the other things. She is also married and has children older than me.
Moon tells me I’ve crossed the boundary. I’ve invaded Pleaides’s husband’s territory. In his line of work, employees are frightened. Takeover and hostile takeovers have become normal in his sector. Each time a takeover occurs people lose jobs. People over here, traditionally, prefer job security and benefits over better monthly salary. Employees are willing to work for less. His official work time is 10 to 6, six days a week. To beat the traffic he leaves at 8 a.m. At 8 p.m. he is still at his office waiting for his next staff meeting. Moon tells me he is working very hard for his family and I’m the one who is enjoying all the goodies his family can offer. He is pissed.
Now I feel uncomfortable to be intimate with Pleiades when her husband is in home. I try to stay away from her while her husband is in home.
Moon tells me to move out. She tells me to go on dates with Pleiades instead of being her second husband. The problem is no one will rent me an apartment by myself because of my age. My only option is share an apartment with bunch of other guys. Depending on the size of the room I’ll two or three roommates. But I like my private space. I can’t sleep in noise. I can’t move back to my parents’ homes.
Pleiades also doesn’t want me move out. She is like creeping plant. She has covered me very well with her emotion and love in just ten months. She is a very soft hearted woman. Sensitive. Physically very touchy. She loves to talk and laugh. She has shared every bit of her life with me. I believe I love her. It’ll not be easy to stay away from her. But I don’t want to be a problem in her marriage let along the reason of break up. I
My parents are polyamorous. They don’t live together anymore but still officially married. My mother hates both Pleiades and Moon. My mother tells me I shouldn’t have serious relationship at my age. I should be doing what other "children" at my age are doing. I should be doing some stupid things. I should be doing serial relationships instead of parallel. She constantly asks me why I’m with women much older than I am. She believes that is my only problem. She also believes Pleiades is using me for money and Moon is stealing from me. My option should be getting rid of both of them from my life. My father believes I’m destroying my life. He wanted me to go abroad to study. I didn’t. Since then whatever I do he is unhappy.
How polyamorous people do it? How a man treats his girlfriend who is married to another man? No gift policy? Children of his girlfriend are separate from his relationship? Her other aspects of life is none of his business?
The business model I’m using will not sustain forever. For now I’m keeping the model since I’m a student. After that I’ve to change my business model which will take a big chunk of my time. I’ll also have to introduce a wide variety of products which will make me a lot busier. Sometime I wonder about the future of my relationships. What is the longevity of polyamorous relationships?
I’m 19. I think I’m polyamorous. But I was told I still have my milk teeth (baby teeth) how I can have a relationship. I am also told in my age it is miracle to be in a monogamous relationship let along polygamous. May be they are right. Nevertheless, I’ve two relationships with two different women.
I met a woman, almost a decade older than me, on the street. Neither of us was looking for any relationship. We just met. A relationship was formed. At the time I was looking for a place to move from my parents’ home. When the relationship was one month old I moved in with her. Let’s call her Pleiades.
She is married and has a set of little twin girls. Her husband is a friendly gentleman. We talk politics and sports all the time. I’m their paying guest, a lodger. Since it is a conservative world we don’t show in any way that Pleiades and I’ve any kind of relationship beside the usual renter and lodger relationship. It is a secret.
When I moved in everything was fine. Then slowly I realized Pleiades and her husband were having financial difficulties. Pleiades’s husband salary is pretty good. But economy is doing better and rapidly booming. The city is full of entrepreneurs. They are driving prices up. More than one third of the salary is usually spent on rent and then the utility bills. Food prices are also up. Within a year food prices have increased three folds. Last year we had two big natural disasters. Farming lands haven’t recovered yet. Foods we had plenty to feed ourselves are now being imported. Ordinary consumers are feeling the pressure. Pleiades’s husband had his salary increased. Actually entire pay scales everywhere were redrawn. But it was inadequate. Pleiades is a housewife. So it was tough for them. They have never discussed their financial situation with me. I didn’t ask either.
When I was fifteen I started my own business. At first, I wanted to see if I could do it or not. Then it was just for fun. Now it generates good money, more than the ordinary salaried persons take home income. So I started to do groceries. If I saw a utility bill in mail box I would pick that up and pay. If they asked I smiled and never asked them for money.
Twins and I get along great. I also buy things for the twins here and there. Sometime I babysit them. I take them to schools. I’ve a bike and the school is on my way to my university. I also chaperone them, go to new restaurants. I also take them to theme parks. We have two just outside of the city. Those are luxury for middle class family.
I also buy things for Pleiades. Dresses I’ve bought for her are pretty expensive. Some of those dresses cost more than her husband’s monthly salary. I’ve also bought gold jewelries. I took her to places which are also very expensive. To be honest, her husband’s income has never come to my mind when I was doing these. I wasn’t showing off. I wasn’t trying show I was better than her husband. I was only trying to make her happy, taking my girlfriend to nice places, doing things she had never done. I was also trying to make my girlfriend’s children happy.
I’ve found Pleiades is good with needle and thread. She has eyes and mind of designer when it comes to clothes. I’d suggested her to open her own boutique shop. She understood it could improve their financial situation. She has never discussed their financial condition but I’ve felt she’ll require loan. Bank only give money to people who has something bank can take away if situation arises. She didn’t tell me but I realized she didn’t have anything put down as collateral. Moreover, Pleiades isn’t much educated. Bank wouldn’t help her. So I offer my money as loan. She opened a boutique shop. I told her to expand and make it bigger. Then she can pay me back.
I help her to manage her shop finance. I stay with her when she deals with her suppliers. I spent a lot of time with her these days. I also spent a lot of time with her children. Sometime I take them to my place of work. Her daughters and I study together. If no one is present those girls starts playing instead of studying. Pleiades is busy with her shop and her husband at her job. I stay with them when I’m available.
Now I’m getting different kind of vibe from Pleiades’s husband. We are still good. But I’ve this strange feeling. Sometime I feel I’m unwanted. Sometime I feel he doesn’t want me around. Our conversation is smaller than before.
I’ve another girlfriend (or something like that). She is twice my age but we are very good friends. It is also physical. She helps me with my tax. From above it seems my government doesn’t like me to pay tax for my business. But the rules are pretty weird. I’ve discovered some laws are written a century ago and I fall under those laws. When I read those laws I feel like I don’t know my own language. So I hired a lawyer. Let’s call her Moon. I know pleasure with business is not a good thing. In my defense, I was strictly professional with her. It was her who started the other things. She is also married and has children older than me.
Moon tells me I’ve crossed the boundary. I’ve invaded Pleaides’s husband’s territory. In his line of work, employees are frightened. Takeover and hostile takeovers have become normal in his sector. Each time a takeover occurs people lose jobs. People over here, traditionally, prefer job security and benefits over better monthly salary. Employees are willing to work for less. His official work time is 10 to 6, six days a week. To beat the traffic he leaves at 8 a.m. At 8 p.m. he is still at his office waiting for his next staff meeting. Moon tells me he is working very hard for his family and I’m the one who is enjoying all the goodies his family can offer. He is pissed.
Now I feel uncomfortable to be intimate with Pleiades when her husband is in home. I try to stay away from her while her husband is in home.
Moon tells me to move out. She tells me to go on dates with Pleiades instead of being her second husband. The problem is no one will rent me an apartment by myself because of my age. My only option is share an apartment with bunch of other guys. Depending on the size of the room I’ll two or three roommates. But I like my private space. I can’t sleep in noise. I can’t move back to my parents’ homes.
Pleiades also doesn’t want me move out. She is like creeping plant. She has covered me very well with her emotion and love in just ten months. She is a very soft hearted woman. Sensitive. Physically very touchy. She loves to talk and laugh. She has shared every bit of her life with me. I believe I love her. It’ll not be easy to stay away from her. But I don’t want to be a problem in her marriage let along the reason of break up. I
My parents are polyamorous. They don’t live together anymore but still officially married. My mother hates both Pleiades and Moon. My mother tells me I shouldn’t have serious relationship at my age. I should be doing what other "children" at my age are doing. I should be doing some stupid things. I should be doing serial relationships instead of parallel. She constantly asks me why I’m with women much older than I am. She believes that is my only problem. She also believes Pleiades is using me for money and Moon is stealing from me. My option should be getting rid of both of them from my life. My father believes I’m destroying my life. He wanted me to go abroad to study. I didn’t. Since then whatever I do he is unhappy.
How polyamorous people do it? How a man treats his girlfriend who is married to another man? No gift policy? Children of his girlfriend are separate from his relationship? Her other aspects of life is none of his business?
The business model I’m using will not sustain forever. For now I’m keeping the model since I’m a student. After that I’ve to change my business model which will take a big chunk of my time. I’ll also have to introduce a wide variety of products which will make me a lot busier. Sometime I wonder about the future of my relationships. What is the longevity of polyamorous relationships?
