polybynature
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SO my spouse and I have been poly for about two years...Ive been with my boyfriend almost the same amount of time. I love him very much and we make an amazing couple. My spouse...I feel we've grown further apart. At first, it was great dating and connecting over that with one another, but as the newness wore off we went back to our old problems and struggles and a big part of me thinks we should be domestic partners raising our children, not romantic.
Does anyone else do this? Have a non-romantic relationship with a spouse and then a romantic partner? I've always felt like that's not being poly, its being separated and having a bf/gf. I'm just feeling very confused if I even AM poly, or just no longer wanted to be with my spouse and it was easier to become poly than to leave him.
Does anyone else do this? Have a non-romantic relationship with a spouse and then a romantic partner? I've always felt like that's not being poly, its being separated and having a bf/gf. I'm just feeling very confused if I even AM poly, or just no longer wanted to be with my spouse and it was easier to become poly than to leave him.