colorado couple trying something new
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Hi CinandJes. My wife and I are pursuing something new as well. She and I have been together for over 30 yrs and she has finally come out of the closet about her deepest, darkest desires.
I confessed to wanting to share her with another man, many years ago. She joked about it for years, but she finally had sex with a friend of mine and she loved it. For some reason, it freaked my friend out and he is no longer around.
Nevertheless, my wife and I are very open, with each other now, and it turns out she and I are looking for the same thing. My wife and I are looking for another man to share our life with. The three of us would be friends and she would be allowed to have as much sex with him as she and he wanted. No limits.
She and I would even love for him to travel with us, and for the three of us to share a king size bed everywhere we went. If the three of us got along really well, she and I have even discussed him moving in with us and being a true polyamorus trio.
My wife is a sexual goddess. She always has been and I've always known she is fully capable of having two men in her life, full time. She, herself, has finally admitted to me that I am right, so the search is on.
I confessed to wanting to share her with another man, many years ago. She joked about it for years, but she finally had sex with a friend of mine and she loved it. For some reason, it freaked my friend out and he is no longer around.
Nevertheless, my wife and I are very open, with each other now, and it turns out she and I are looking for the same thing. My wife and I are looking for another man to share our life with. The three of us would be friends and she would be allowed to have as much sex with him as she and he wanted. No limits.
She and I would even love for him to travel with us, and for the three of us to share a king size bed everywhere we went. If the three of us got along really well, she and I have even discussed him moving in with us and being a true polyamorus trio.
My wife is a sexual goddess. She always has been and I've always known she is fully capable of having two men in her life, full time. She, herself, has finally admitted to me that I am right, so the search is on.
Al99
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Hi CinandJess - welcome to the Forum!
Are you more interested in polyamory - multiple loving relationships (sexual-romantic-committed) with knowledge and consent of all involved (so, for example, while you might remain married, you might each have another loving partner or two - boyfriend, girlfriend, etc) ?
Or perhaps - couple-centric recreational sex is more what you have in mind? Swinging - threesomes?
Whatever direction you take, best of luck on your journey into consensual non-monogamy! Al
Are you more interested in polyamory - multiple loving relationships (sexual-romantic-committed) with knowledge and consent of all involved (so, for example, while you might remain married, you might each have another loving partner or two - boyfriend, girlfriend, etc) ?
Or perhaps - couple-centric recreational sex is more what you have in mind? Swinging - threesomes?
Whatever direction you take, best of luck on your journey into consensual non-monogamy! Al
Greetings CinAndJes,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I hope you'll have good luck in your search; if there's anything Polyamory.com can do to help let us know. You can definitely find like-minded people to talk to here.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I hope you'll have good luck in your search; if there's anything Polyamory.com can do to help let us know. You can definitely find like-minded people to talk to here.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!