Couple in Omaha

Covenant

Covenant

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I'm new to the Omaha area. My wife and I have been together for over 12 years and we have two children. We are homesteaders, home-schoolers, political oddballs, and spiritually undecided people. We like most things "nerd", including online gaming, sci-fi and fantasy TV, movies and books, super heroes (admittedly, we prefer them in video format), aaannd, stuff. Farming and crafting is our life. We raise chickens, ducks, and goats at the moment but we've had a pig and rabbits before. My wife and the kids do most of the farm tasks and craftwork while I'm off earning the dollars but I love getting filthy on the farm when I can. We're also an untalented bunch of musicians who aspire to greatness, someday.

My wife and I have always been open to the idea of adding to our relationship though we have never found anyone suitable. We are not swingers or looking for sexual relationships. We are looking for a responsible woman to join our family but before that can even be considered we would need a solid friendship. Most sites/groups I have found are focused on sex but I hope to meet some people here that are more about the relationships.

So there you have it.
 
I stated it that way because we are not looking for sex centric relationships. We are looking for a committed family oriented relationship that, when appropriate, could include sex. Also, my wife is not interested in having sex with women (she has before we meet), she wants a sister wife. The utility of extra hands and eyes around the house to help raise kids with more people that love them, people with diverse skills, experiences, and knowledge. Extra help on the farm and an extra shoulder to lean on or cry into. I'm looking for a person that is in it for the everyday life experiences of being married. My current marriage is fantastic and does not require an additional person but when/if the right person comes along, I believe expanding a family is value added.

At the core of this is a relationship that is not based on sex, it isn't for increased income, or a redistribution of labor. It's about building a stronger team, while sex, income and reduced labor are side effects of the type of relationship I'm looking for. We are practical people while most seem to be lustful or romantic in their relationship pursuits.

I'm an opinionated person and I know some of what I said will offend others. I apologize in advance. I'm not saying your way is wrong, just that it is not my way and I feel the need to distinguish the difference.
 
So it sounds like you're looking to build a polygamous family, Covenant, yes? What you're describing is polygamy - polygamy without the romance? You want a second wife who isn't interested in romance, just work and childbearing/rearing and sometimes talking. Do I understand accurately? May I ask, are you religious people?
 
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Greetings Covenant,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I take it you're interested in an FMF V, two women and one man. As far as I know it could work, you just need to find the right woman for your situation. That will take awhile, so be patient.

In the meantime I hope you'll explore this site, and post any thoughts, questions, or concerns you have along the way. I usually follow the intro board pretty faithfully, so if you want to ping me on this thread you can do so with a new post.

I'm glad you could join us.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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