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kittenkittykat

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Okay. So. I thought things were getting better, but obviously they are not. Their child started kicking me, so I held her in a way that she couldn't hurt me.

He then proceeded to start hollering at me about getting dishes done, and laundry, and taking a bath, so I don't even have a clue wtf I am being yelled at about. I asked and got more no answers, but yelled at. I am standing here crying doing dishes because I don't know what to do.
 
I have to ask-- what part of "Get out of this relationship" aren't you getting?? Reread your other posts and take the advice you have been asking for. Get the hell out of that house for your own safety and sanity. Go to a shelter. Call 911 and the cops will take you there. Just get out now.
 
Stop posting threads whining about your life and get the heck out of there. Sleeping in your car or a flea bag hotel is better than this
 
This is a forum about nonmonogamous relationships, not a battered women's shelter, not group therapy, not child protective services.

WHY ARE YOU HERE, WHO DO YOU THINK WE ARE, AND WHAT DO YOU EXPECT US TO DO?

Shit or get off the pot.
 
Hitchhike.
 
kittenkittykat said:
If I had a car, yes. But I don't, and we live 50 miles from town. So I don't know how to leave, is all.
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This is a completely serious response:

1. Pick up the phone.
2. Dial the closest police department (if you can't find the number, dial 911).
3. Explain that you are in an abusive household, have no vehicle and are concerned for your safety and well-being.
4. Request an officer come to pick you up and deliver you to the nearest women's shelter, or other appropriate location.
 
Mine was a completely serious response too. It's not like the OP is going to do any of it. She's just going to keep starting new threads whining about stuff.
 
You live 50 miles from a TOWN? Where are you, Alaska? Is there a police plane that can take you somewhere safe sooner than Monday?

Please, get to town, and get in a shelter. I know you were raised in foster care. Maybe this abusive couple 20 years older than you feel like Mommy and Daddy. This is not a healthy attitude for a grown-ass woman of 29. Get out, go to a shelter and get some therapy.
 
kittenkittykat said:
I called my friend and her truck-driver friend will be coming to get me Monday morning. He can't be in this area until then.
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I am glad you took this important step. Good for you! Now don't tell the couple you are leaving. I know this is obvious, but some people in similar situations just want things to work out, and slip up and tell abusers they are leaving as a last ditch effort to try and fix things. Resist this. Do not tell them.

Best of luck. You deserve better.
 
Too bad there is no way to warn their next victim.
 
BoringGuy said:
Too bad there is no way to warn their next victim.
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Nah, there are probably heads on spikes surrounding their slave compound. Just takes a special kind of genius to not want to go in there.
 
Magdlyn said:
You live 50 miles from a TOWN? Where are you, Alaska? Is there a police plane that can take you somewhere safe sooner than Monday?

Please, get to town, and get in a shelter. I know you were raised in foster care. Maybe this abusive couple 20 years older than you feel like Mommy and Daddy. This is not a healthy attitude for a grown-ass woman of 29. Get out, go to a shelter and get some therapy.
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Grown-ass woman of 29? Where did you get that from? Her public profile says she's a grown-ass woman of 31.

I am curious how a person can be 29 and 31 at the same time. Maybe it's because I'm ageist or something.
 
Magdlyn said:
Thought I read it on one of her threads, BG. Whatever.
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Actually, it is not "whatever." I thought I read it somewhere too, and usually you are very good and prompt about providing a linked quote in these cases. Also, KKK has only 30-something posts, so it wouldn't be that onerous of an undertaking.

I wonder if you are displeased by my skepticism with regard to the veracity of the OP's story.

I guess I will just have to check it myself. Maybe the number 29 was referring to something else and you and I both misunderstood. I'll never know if I don't go, right? (That I did not make up. I heard it somewhere.)
 
kittenkittykat said:
Hey Everyone,

Wanted to introduce myself, with a big hello from the Northwest. I am L, a 29-yr old female in a poly-fi triad.
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That was easy. Now we know. The OP is either 29 or 31.

I mean, the user profile does not require a person to display their age.

Oh well, whatever whatever. This theory of mine that the OP is a disingenuous teller of tall tales is clearly not popular amongst the majority, but you know... whatever is as whatever does.
 
I am 29 yrs old. I will be 30 in October.

You all should know that I have not said anything to them about leaving and I finally feel good.
 
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