Feeling disrespected

astrosneddy said:
That's ignorant, in my opinion. It's also said insensitively and dismissive of this person's lived experience. I thought poly people were supposed to be more advanced communicators, due to the effort you need to put in to have clear, concise communication between all partners. If you have no compassion and empathy, I don't know how you do it.
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Mod Note: This thread is almost 10 years old and the person you're responding to hasn't logged into the site since 2015, so I wouldn't hold my breath for a response from them.
 
astrosneddy said:
That's ignorant, in my opinion. It's also said insensitively and dismissive of this person's lived experience. I thought poly people were supposed to be more advanced communicators, due to the effort you need to put in to have clear, concise communication between all partners. If you have no compassion and empathy, I don't know how you do it.
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I appreciate that you are new here and jumping in to share your perspective. I encourage you to look at dates and try not to revive old threads. This one is from 2014.

you may gain a lot from reading old threads, but it’s not helpful to respond to them. Tx
 
Although there is no rule against "thread mining", it's much more productive to reference old threads in a current discussion or start a new discussion about that topic and link to the older thread for reference. It's also fine to quote parts of existing conversations and reference them elsewhere, especially when side talk is making a discussion go off topic.
 
Personally I don't mind that astrosneddy revived the thread, and I think he made a valid point. As for Snic85 (the OP), I see shortcomings on both their parts (her and her husband). But I was a little disgusted when I read, "Since I didn't blow up and make a huge deal about it, he thought it was okay to have her over again without talking to me."
 
Bobbi said:
I appreciate that you are new here and jumping in to share your perspective. I encourage you to look at dates and try not to revive old threads. This one is from 2014.

you may gain a lot from reading old threads, but it’s not helpful to respond to them. Tx
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I got it, I'll definitely adjust that behavior. Thank you
 
ref2018 said:
Mod Note: This thread is almost 10 years old and the person you're responding to hasn't logged into the site since 2015, so I wouldn't hold my breath for a response from them.
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Understood, I will act accordingly. I was not really aware of the date.
 
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