Feeling like the third wheel

kittenkittykat said:
They have had a few relationships with other women, two before their DD was born, and one after, but before me.

I don't know much other than the girl before me was taking BC pills behind their back. She stated she wanted a child with them, but they found the BC pills...
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And so they found someone even more vulnerable instead? I bet they told you that story as if the ex were the baddie? But notice that is exactly what you have been advised to do, because they treated their ex exactly how they are treating you, but she was smart enough to leave.
 
She did not leave of her own free will. They told me that she didn't want anything to do with the wife sexually. I, on the other hand, have been the exact opposite.

I know that sex-wise things are tense right now, so having a baby probably won't be a reality for a few months, since he and I haven't had sex since May 5th.
 
Wait, wait. They chucked her out because she wasn't sexually attracted to the wife? And you think this is normal? And because you are not getting any sex, that is the only reason why you don't think it is a good time to have a baby?

Good grief. You know what? You do what you have to do, because it is quite clear to me that you have no intention of leaving this abusive situation.

Sad, sad, sad...
 
No, that's not the only reason why. They asked her to help with household chores. And she was telling him she would be a far better wife then his wife.
 
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