Feeling Magickal

Bewitched

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You know the look. Daring to break your own rules so that the house looks spectacular before guests arrive! It can be faster or easier with a little wiggle of the nose. 🧙

I'm 45F and poly for as long as I can remember. Enchanted by the prospect of new friends and often accused of being a tease. Took me most my life to explain why: I'm "demisexual" and "alloromantic".
In other words you can just call me a big flirt 😚

Exploring Relationship Anarchy as my husband and I restructure our lives together and how we wish to share energy with others. I've come to accept that I'm highly attracted to the Hermit archetype and will seek an intelligent, caring, interdependence while expressing outgoing, adventure in daredevilish fashion. If you catch my drift, good to meet you ❤️ We obviously speak similar ADHD and can dance naked merrily in full moon light!

In layman's terms, I'm an omnivert. Usually the introvert among my extroverted friends, but always too much for all my introverts!! Much love anyway.
Hugs are free if you want some 🫂

WItchy woman. Traveler. Earth Warrior.
This brings us back to my introductory paragraph... I made a commitment to my nesting partner, it stems from being eager to please with a high regard to service > I stopped being me because he didn't like the things I did < I continue to find ways to be authentic, even when he didn't agree.

Luckily we have a lot in common, but the way I chose to live my life was outlandish to him, and I've had to wait to be more comfortable until he could fathom abundance.

Be careful for what you wish for, and be extra careful what you say! When I was a younger I heard my parents say, "All you want is everything" and I'd jokingly complete the ruse with, "right now!" Patience was a virtue I sought to understand, and I've mastered by being married to my amazing Hermit. I've been well received and a joy to all, but I miss the days of adventure and mischievous mayhem. A well played, F*CK you!! can get one out of trouble as much as it can condemn it.

I'm bored of playing the well behaved housewife. Patient and prim. Where's the lounge of Furries? Pixies at play in the garden? As I conjure up an elixir of damiana to share amongst friends before tossing our clothes off and wrestling into a pile of hedonistic flesh upon the altar?

It's a double life, or perhaps it's hexagonal?
I'm grateful my husband has learned that I'm happiest when I have the freedom to do and say whatever I need in the moment. Thankfully, he trusts that I have a head on my shoulders and a heart that's grown 3 times since we separated.

I can't pretend to be someone I'm not, and I don't want to be someone's fantasy (unless consensual). I feel very Bewitched and find that I choose magick over mundanity. I'm here to build connection through conversation. In a world of hatred and fear... Let's love boldly.
 
Greetings Bewitched,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

That certainly was an enticing intro, I like your boldness in daring to break your own rules. You can definitely build connection through conversation, keep looking through our various threads and boards, and share more of your thoughts, feelings, and questions as they arise. Glad to have you with us!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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