Founding Poly-Friendly Community on Canary Islands

IntuitiveWriter

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Hi beautiful ones :)

Just wrote a blog article that introduces a bit of my vision of a community I'd like to start, and I want to share it with you (see below the image).

The community's main ideas include:
  • Providing a safe space to share experiences and support each other on our healing and inner growth journeys.
  • Enhancing energy work, intuition, and spiritual practices.
  • Helping each other with facing fears, releasing emotional burdens, and overcoming blockages through self-LOVE, forgiveness, and introspection.
  • Encouraging deep connections based on LOVE, mutual care, and open, honest communication.
  • Guiding each other towards understanding our soul's journey and life purpose.
As the vision becomes clearer, it now needs those souls who feel a calling to come together and create it.
Please get in touch and let's talk! 💜🌻✨ WA/Telegram: +491738532668

Also, any comments or questions about the blog post or the community vision are warmly welcomed ... 🤗

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42 Basic Human Needs

After some challenging days with periods of emotional suffering, I had a wonderful dream at night. You know, the kind of dream where you embrace someone intimately and then walk holding hands with someone else, being there for each other. There was also a kitten who caught a pigeon and, while holding on to it, suddenly found herself flying, enjoying it with great curiosity.

When I woke up, there was a question in my mind. "How do you want to feel in your daily life, Nils?"

I got up and made a list. It contains 42 basic human needs (my regards to the Hitchhiker’s Guide). They are not just my personal desires, I believe that we all have them. We long for them.

Yes, we can and should meet these needs within ourselves. Loving ourselves allows us to feel loved. This involves our spiritual relationship with ourselves and the All That Is. Self-LOVE is the foundation, and yet it is the sharing of our needs with others that gives life its richness.

Caring for Each Other

When we grow up, we often have two parents who look after our needs. This creates a three-dimensional network of relationships. As adults, we are expected to simplify this to a two-dimensional network, with one partner to share and meet most of our needs, and perhaps a few good friends for extra support.

For many of us, this concept doesn’t seem to work so well any more. Traditional romantic relationships tend to become stale, unfulfilling or dishonest after a few years.

Being deeply dependent on one partner can cause a fear of loss, leading to problems like jealousy. If a separation happens, it can be very painful and take a long time to recover from.

So, let’s create something new. What about small, family-like communities of three to five souls, where we meet our basic human needs together, while growing into our best versions of ourselves?

The vision has been growing over the past few years. A book, Communities of LOVE, is in the pipeline and I’m having inspiring conversations with the first souls interested in making this happen.

If you would like to know more, please get in touch.

Much LOVE,
Nils
 
As the vision for the community becomes clearer, I found that it needs some kind of prolonged gatherings to learn how to consciously and lovingly relate to each other. There are so many interested in poly, but not so many know how to bring this into their lives. So, I created this:

Step One: Nine-Day Exploration Journey​

Discover the togetherness of a shared-LOVE community with interwoven romantic, and/or sensual, and/or friendly relationships.​

  • Safely open yourself to new concepts that may be outside your preconditioned mental box. Overcome the old concepts of LOVE that we’ve learned from the fairy tale society.
  • Acknowledge your personal fears and doubts in the safe space of our emotional sharing circles.
  • Through playfulness, intuition, emotional release, trust building, and giving allowances and boundaries with each participant we establish a network of heartfelt connections with each other.
When?
spring and summer 2025 (multiple options)

Where?
Tenerife, Canary Islands

How many people?
three to nine

Please note that this is not a workshop or retreat. It's a nonprofit project about learning and sharing together.

The community that eventually comes out of these "workshops" will not just be a living space, but also serve as a training hub for others who want to found similar family-like poly communities.

I would greatly appreciate any help, especially reaching out in social media, to find those who are interested in learning about this way of living. Please get in touch with me if you have any ideas regarding this. Thank you so much! :love:
 
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