Full Quad Dating

I come from the swinging world - once had a deep couples friendship, guys are straight, us girls would play, kiss and enjoy eachother but we're both more inclined to emotional connection with guys... It could have been a poly situation but I had my walls up high.

Anyway what I'm getting at is if besides being really super sexually compatible as a foursome, and besides having non-platonic love flowing you can cultivate the 4 way friendship aspect - you'll be better placed to support eachother through any upsets or changes.

Be appreciative verbally and why not talk through some what it's now why the rose-tinted glasses are on. Our friends broke up, unexpectedly and the early 2020 timing meant covid and lockdowns interfered further with creating distance.

Even with all that turmoil although they couldn't work their dynamic out we were able to salvage elements of our individual connections...
 
element said:
I am in a Quad that has been evolving for over two years with many of the same agreements that you have, while others we have moved beyond in the course of that time.
For example, we used to only engage in "same room" sex, but we have all found a balance of same room and separate room sex. We enjoy both, obviously for different reasons.
Don't get too concerned about people telling you that your agreements can't work. The most important thing is to take your time and don't pressure anyone in the quad to push beyond their limits until they are ready. If you all care about each other, it is easy to take your time.
Things are not easy, but they are amazing and worth all the work.
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Thank you!

We are the other half of this quad. My partner quit reading because she got scared. As helpful and thoughtful/insightful as ALL these words have been... I will say it is hard to grow in the moment when you are so focused on the end game. She wanted to say thank you for your words of encouragement. And so do I.

Despite all the challenges on the table... We are open to the possibilities. AND we are committed to exploring this .... And embracing the current moment.

as you so eloquently said.... We do care about everyone here... And that makes it easy for us to take our time.

To coffeeandconvo: The world is at our finger tips. We love you both.... And can't wait to see what this adventure has in store for all four of us!
 
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