Gay poly here...

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nycthruple

New member
Hello:

Currently involved in a poly-gay relationship in NY.
I was not actively seeking to be in one, but it just sort of blossomed over a period of time with a couple I was spending time with.
Just discovered this forum... and curious what it's all about..
I guess looking for advice on how to navigate for success!
 
Yep sounds about right..
Tough though when one is already coupled, and I am new to the relationship and their bond is already established and solid.

Tough to bring up issues that I might find hurtful where they dont see..
 
Greetings nycthruple,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Communication is often scary when you know you might rock the boat, but sometimes you just have to rock it as gently as you can and let the other two guys know what's on your mind. And I know that as the third guy you probably feel like a fifth wheel, but give it time. That feeling does gradually go away. Patience, time, and productive communication. That's what it's all about.

I'm glad you could join us and hope you will find a lot of good info on our various threads and boards. Don't hesitate to post your questions and whatnot whenever they come to mind.

With well wishes,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

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Welcome aboard!
 
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