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newbieineveryway

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I am brand spanking new here. I came here to hopefully learn somethings from people who have more knowledge than I do.

I started dating/living with a man who is poly 9 months ago. I have never been with anyone in this lifestyle before. I am a submissive by nature.

I was taught that this lifestyle was wrong and it has been difficult trying to reprogram myself. I am having not jealousy issues so much as envy, fear, loneliness to name a few.

I am interested in trying poly but I can only hear what others have told me that it would make me a slut, whore (you get the idea)

I spoke to a few friends who have now pretty much disowned me.

I care for this man very very much and I want this to work but I could definitely use some advice.

thanks
 
Hi newbieineveryway - welcome to the Forum! I see that you have already posted in the "Poly Relationships Corner" in regard to your current situation - and that is just the place to post for specific advice and help with your unfolding poly situation. There are many experienced poly folks here on the Forum who can offer you sound advice and solid information. Best of luck on your poly journey! Al
 
Greetings newbieineveryway,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I read your other thread, and responded there briefly. I think the main thing is defining boundaries, with consequences for breakage that you can control.

Sorry to hear about how your friends treated you. I hope you will feel more supported here.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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Welcome aboard!
 
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