Greetings! New to Poly

[TangleDiamond2]

Hi! I'm a 30 something yr old happily married woman who has found herself in a somewhat polyamorous quad... The other half is a happily married couple of 15+ yrs. we started as swingers and have found that our relationship evolved.
I'm in love with the other husband. And I have strong feelings for the wife. (I have never been involved with a woman, so this is new). So I have a zillion questions, a zillion obstacles, hurdles and happy wonderful moments and just have no reference for what we are doing.

 

[Sirensong]

Congrats and kudos to you! I'm still very new to this whole thing (Poly) as well. So, I can't offer much by way of experience based advice-- but I can offer support.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings TangleDiamond2,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

We have zillions of answers and zillions of solutions and while not all will intersect with your questions and obstacles, many will and it tends to be helpful to hear from a diverse range of perspectives. So your time on Polyamory.com will probably be well-spent!

I follow the intro threads so you can always ping me on this thread, but you'll usually get many responses from many members on other threads too. Just let us know whatever's on your mind, we'll try to help!

And you may find that you'll be of help to other people too. Glad you could join us!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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