Hello all!
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I did introduce myself way back when after all :-|
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MoostacheKitteh
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Welcome back!
Is anything new happening with you and your relationship?
Is anything new happening with you and your relationship?
Greetings mikahtx,
Welcome back. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
Don't know if you and your wife still swing at all. You'll have to get us caught up on the last couple of years.
Glad you're still with us.
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Welcome aboard!
Welcome back. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
Don't know if you and your wife still swing at all. You'll have to get us caught up on the last couple of years.
Glad you're still with us.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!
We don't consider ourselves swingers. We have had fun with selected friends in group situations but it's rare. We tend to do venture out separately in that regard.
New events: I have a lover I see every now and again. She is a good friend of mine. We do not always end up in bed when we hang out. I am on okcupid identifying myself as being in an open relationship and have had good success with it in the sex department, although the women I have been with have a hard time wrapping their heads around how to deal with an open relationship. I have never dated anyone that is also in an open relationship.
My wife has had a few brief affairs and we've had a couple of threesomes.
Our love life has never waned, and when we have fun on the side it only seems to become more intense.
She has showed a bit of jealousy a couple of times which I personally appreciated. She asked me not to do such and such and so I didn't. She is more important to me than an affair on the side. I have told her the same on a few occasions.
There are times that I wish she only had eyes for me. I believe I was preprogrammed to feel that way from a young age and cannot shake it. I am also not convinced that I should shake it despite the fact that it can cause me a great deal of distress.
Other times the thought of her going after what she wants is a real turn on. I love her slutty side. That and the fact that I really enjoy the company of other women creates a bit of a conflict with the aforementioned preprogramming.
The struggle however makes life interesting. I by no means aspire to be completely sage like. That would be boring. Does that make me a masochist?
New events: I have a lover I see every now and again. She is a good friend of mine. We do not always end up in bed when we hang out. I am on okcupid identifying myself as being in an open relationship and have had good success with it in the sex department, although the women I have been with have a hard time wrapping their heads around how to deal with an open relationship. I have never dated anyone that is also in an open relationship.
My wife has had a few brief affairs and we've had a couple of threesomes.
Our love life has never waned, and when we have fun on the side it only seems to become more intense.
She has showed a bit of jealousy a couple of times which I personally appreciated. She asked me not to do such and such and so I didn't. She is more important to me than an affair on the side. I have told her the same on a few occasions.
There are times that I wish she only had eyes for me. I believe I was preprogrammed to feel that way from a young age and cannot shake it. I am also not convinced that I should shake it despite the fact that it can cause me a great deal of distress.
Other times the thought of her going after what she wants is a real turn on. I love her slutty side. That and the fact that I really enjoy the company of other women creates a bit of a conflict with the aforementioned preprogramming.
The struggle however makes life interesting. I by no means aspire to be completely sage like. That would be boring. Does that make me a masochist?