FallenAngelina
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Hello all,
- Thread starter Ashlyn
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SchrodingersCat
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Yep, agree with others. You've done more than your fair share of the hard work required in a poly relationship. It's your turn to go out and meet some people, and if that means men then he'll just have to deal with it.
The one penis policy is bullshit. If he can't let go, he needs to figure out what cultural triggers he's got going on and get over them.
You seem to have a really good head on your shoulders, a strong sense of what's going on with everybody, and I don't think you'll have any trouble going at a pace that your husband can adjust with.
The one penis policy is bullshit. If he can't let go, he needs to figure out what cultural triggers he's got going on and get over them.
You seem to have a really good head on your shoulders, a strong sense of what's going on with everybody, and I don't think you'll have any trouble going at a pace that your husband can adjust with.
It does feel like I’ve done more than my fair share. He’s not the best at analyzing/sharing his feelings and I’ve always helped him out that way. Now I feel like I have to communicate for all three of us and I’ve only met her three times. (She’s mono and recently came from a bad relationship.)
The part that doesn’t sit well with me is the double standard. He was upset that I had an issue with her “sleeping” over at our house so soon. It was my idea to invite her over, but we hadn’t discussed such an extended stay. If I even thought about doing that he’d be freaking out.
Thank you. You are too kind.