hello everyone

[2ndbadgirl]

ok so I am new to poly and this site.

I am a 42 yr old unicorn..

lots of history, blah blah blah but basically going to be going into a poly relationship as a 2nd wife. He and I have known each other for years and been comfortable with each other and now I'm getting to know the wife and the 3 of us just adapting and getting used to each other. We all know where we want to end up,,

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings 2ndbadgirl,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Sounds like you have recently become one part of an MFF triad, or that is your goal. I hope it all works out well and that Polyamory.com can help. Have a look around at our different threads, and see if you have any questions.

Nice to have you here.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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Welcome aboard!

 

[2ndbadgirl]

thanks

Thanks Kdt..

I have been looking through lots of info and adapting to what works for me/us. Our relationship is definitely not going to be able to be labelled and defined and I'm fine with that...I find labels can be more detrimental in some cases. I am quite excited for the journey I will be embarking on.

I may not always post my thoughts or feelings but I usually a lurker and just like to read and process things at my pace.

 

[kdt26417]

No problem there; we've got lots of good stuff you can read.