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Ysna887

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Hi my name is Anne, but yall can call me Izzy or Ysna. Both bames I use online a lot. I'm posting from my phone so there will be text speak as it's easier for me to do so lol. I'm not sure if this is gonna be a double post or not. If it is yall can remove one.

I'm 26(almost 27) married and have 2 kids. I've been bi-curious ever since I can remember. Me and my hubs rp (role play) but not in the sense everyone else uses. It's like we just become the characters we use. Kinda like cosplaying with out the outfits. But in an rp if ours our main characters hooked up with a second girl, and I've been wanting to try it ever since.

He said he was just joking about it when it happened in the rp, but ever since we've both had dreams about it.

Our kids r a 7yr old boy and a 1yr old girl. Having a second girl in the relationship would help me with my depression and anger issues. Would help keep me de-stressed lol. Would give me someone to talk to all the time. And someone else to help with the minions. And it would benefit the hubs too ^^

So I'm an avid video game junkie. Just recently got destiny for PS3, and gonna get the new retro 3ds soon too, so I can give my mom my current animal crossing 3ds. I know yall probably don't got no clue what I'm talkin bout and that's ok. Lol.

I currently live in Alabama with my gramma. We had to move in with her last yr so hubs wouldn't lose his job. My mom n uncle lost the truck just after we moved. So all yr we've been walking to the local grocery store and haven't had really real food since last year. my gramma isn't as nice as yalld think. I have a 500-600lbs cousin who literally eats everything. Including slop. Another cousin who thinks he's a black military guy. And an uncle who does nothing but scream at his video games all day. And gramma stays on Facebook all day. Non stop. She rarely cooks, and never makes the cousins do any chores, then bitches at us cuz the house is a mess. Now last month we got a baby gate for our room and sold out bed and couch to gramma so we would have enough room to keep the kids in our room. Which is working perfectly fine now. But I did that because the 500-600lbs cousin was choking my 7yr old just because we wouldn't give her a soda.

So we were supposed to move in with my moms cousin but she went bat-shit crazy and fed us a bunch a bs about not being able to let us live there, I think her step daughter talked her out of letting us move in because I yelled at her. any time her bf speaks she hits him calls him names and tells him to shut up or die. Oo so yeah.

Anyways. I haven't tried sex or anything else with another girl but am willing lol.
We don't smoke or drink, which apparently is a big turn off for people out there, which confuses me cuz drinking n smoking is a turn off for us lol. I grew up around people who drank and smoke. I see what it did to them. I ain't goin there. I'm not sure what else to say here. Im not tall but not that short. I've bleached my hair again. Now it's a menty color lol. Umm I probably weight around 140-150 now since we rarely eat here. Umm... I have a tattoo but I want a new one but since my moms cousin went nuts again that's not gonna happen ever. We don't have a car (can't afford one to be honest) but me n the hubs both know how to drive. Umm what else.... Hmm. I'm brutally honest to people all the time. Umm yeah I got nothing else to say I think. Wanna know anything else just ask!
 
Greetings Ysna,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Wow, sounds like you have your share of difficulties. Do you have any idea where you'll go to look for this second girl you've been hoping for?

There's lots of stuff to look at on Polyamory.com, lots of threads to read. Let us know if you have any questions! Glad you could join us.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Welcome aboard!
 
I'm not sure even where to start looking to be honest. And since we have no car my options r quite limited. But I found this site and figured it's as good a place as any to start by meeting other people like me lol. And yeah I've had my share of bs. My gramma has kicked us out twice but the cops told her she can't legally kick us out unless the land lady says so, so for now we r safe ish. But she's very adamant about getting rid of us so yeah.

Sorry for the rant n ramble. I'm excited to be here. Maybe I can find a few new friends or maybe something more lol. I'm not gonna just throw myself around out here, so yall don't have to worry about that lol. Thank u for the welcome.
 
Sure, no problem. We have a Dating & Friendships (North America) board that might be helpful, you can post an ad there if you want. Also there's a couple of dating sites that I know of:

You can also search for local poly groups in your area although I suppose you'd have to ask someone to pick you up and give you a ride to go to their potlucks or whatever. If you're interested let me know and I'll show you some links for that.

I won't pretend, it will be hard to get out there and meet people if you don't have your own transportation. Also things sound unsteady with your gramma; I wonder if there is any way you could get a place of your own. If there's not there's not, but I have to feel for you due to the drama you are dealing with there.

The good news is you can explore Polyamory.com freely and post on lots of threads if you want (as well as initiate threads). At the least that will help you to make friends here, and to learn a lot about polyamory and how it works.

I'll be following the intro board, so you can ping me on this thread anytime.

Best wishes,
Kevin T.
 
I know it'll be hard for me to do anything with no car. And yes we r trying to find out own place but wil two minions it's kinda hard to save the cash we'd need to move right away. If my mom can find a place near by we will hijack a couple rooms with her till we can move next yr.

Any links u think ill need just throw em at meh lol
 
Alright, here's a few links you can use to search for local poly groups in your area:

You can also google "Alabama polyamory" or "polyamory" with the name of your nearest major city. If you join a group, I think you should let them know right away that you don't have any of your own transportation, and hopefully you're not too far out of the way that someone can pick you up on their way to group functions.

You probably won't be able to do a lot for awhile, so mostly I would suggest learning as much as you can about polyamory by reading and participating on this forum. Maybe later you can move in with your mom, and save up for a car or borrow hers.

Hope that helps,
Sincerely,
Kevin T.
 
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