Hi everyone!
I am glad I found this forum. DH and I have been tog. 10 years. Poly-minded the entire time, some experience with dating and lots of experience with working on our own stuff as it comes up.
We live remotely now so the potential for poly partners at this point is small...I'm not much into chatting or "dating" via the internet...
I'm now menopausal which is causing some issues...I had a few last fun flings a few years ago and fell hard for a lady that I thought would be our true V...so I'm ready to just sit back and not participate for a while...they say the drive comes back after menopause but for now, it certainly is MEN-O'pause!
Life's pretty good and I'm happy with myself, warts and all. Don't NEED any relationship to fulfill who I am.
As for my own views on Poly I think there are many ways to do it well and let it grow you a ton, and there are many ways to do it badly and hurt and even abuse others...
So here I am! Looking forward to some good discussion!
Bliss,
Anny
I am glad I found this forum. DH and I have been tog. 10 years. Poly-minded the entire time, some experience with dating and lots of experience with working on our own stuff as it comes up.
We live remotely now so the potential for poly partners at this point is small...I'm not much into chatting or "dating" via the internet...
I'm now menopausal which is causing some issues...I had a few last fun flings a few years ago and fell hard for a lady that I thought would be our true V...so I'm ready to just sit back and not participate for a while...they say the drive comes back after menopause but for now, it certainly is MEN-O'pause!
Life's pretty good and I'm happy with myself, warts and all. Don't NEED any relationship to fulfill who I am.
As for my own views on Poly I think there are many ways to do it well and let it grow you a ton, and there are many ways to do it badly and hurt and even abuse others...
So here I am! Looking forward to some good discussion!
Bliss,
Anny