SirKaine
New member
Hello I go by Kaine in the kink world, so I feel it safe to use here. I'm a 33 almost 34 year old cis white male that is polysexual, that has no really problem maintaining a mono, but my heart is always on the prowl so to speak. I am with the love of my life right now in a mono relationship, and at first it took her a while to understand that pansexual and poly sexual arent the same, because at first she would invite random guys over thinking bc I was poly I would be ok with a threesome. It took months of explaining, I am not sexually attracted to anything with a penis, their ugly to me. That doesn't mean however I couldn't fall in love with a guy emotionally, and would be perfectly happy with an non sexual relationship.
Ok enough about my struggle, I am glad to see this coming to the forefront because at 16 in 2002, feeling completely confused about who I was and were I fit was hard. Ppl tried to bully me bc i would say a guy was cute or rumors would fly around i was bi, and I was a player bc I always had a main girlfriend, and girls we played with. My only options back then was to join the kink community, and I became Sir Kaine, and had many subs and slaves, and broke their hearts bc it wasnt what I really wanted but at that time in the world it was the only place that would be open to me and what I liked, now days it's a open topic and I love that. Sorry for The kinda rant, that's the basics for me, feel free to ask anything, and I hope I make meaningful friendships here with like minded people.
Ok enough about my struggle, I am glad to see this coming to the forefront because at 16 in 2002, feeling completely confused about who I was and were I fit was hard. Ppl tried to bully me bc i would say a guy was cute or rumors would fly around i was bi, and I was a player bc I always had a main girlfriend, and girls we played with. My only options back then was to join the kink community, and I became Sir Kaine, and had many subs and slaves, and broke their hearts bc it wasnt what I really wanted but at that time in the world it was the only place that would be open to me and what I liked, now days it's a open topic and I love that. Sorry for The kinda rant, that's the basics for me, feel free to ask anything, and I hope I make meaningful friendships here with like minded people.