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TriForThree

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Hi! I'm new to poly. In our relationship it is me (bi), my husband (straight) and our girlfriend (bi). We are new to the poly life but willing to give this a go. My husband and I have been together for 24 years married 19 years and our girlfriend is a good friend we've known for quite a while, so we care for her very much, we've just recently started dating her. But eventually he would like for us all to be in love but I don't know if I will be able to share his love with someone other than our children. I really want this to work very much and I want to be able to share his love because all three of us deserve it to be as happy as we can be in this life.
 
Wow that sounds amazing

You met your husband when you were 14 and you have been together that long... No wonder you need someone else..
 
Greetings TriForThree,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I suppose the most important thing for you to do with your girlfriend is just to move slow, all three of you. Give each step some time so you can find out what works.

I hope Polyamory.com can help you get things figured out as you go along.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Welcome!

In time I am sure you will open up more to the idea of a complete love triad and all of you (including your kids) will be a great big happy family :)
 
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