Hello all my name is Drea 25 years old though my real name is Andrea but please don't call me that. I am very new to this world of Polyamory my whole being longs to understand it better. Was raised in a very religious home ex Pentecostal so to speak so the bible kind of got forced down my throat. everyone told me being Bi Gay Les was wrong a sin so I never really looked into it until now. So much hatred and guilt regret shame have filled my heart since the first time my first real love left me. Claiming he had sex with many woman it truly broke my heart wanted to die so badly at times. but then just recently A voice don't know if Jesus or who it may be said No Don't this is the path your supposed to take so here I am. After a year of accepting I was gay I soon started realizing to my horror I could not decide if male or female where my favorite gender to choose. So im here to figure out who I am in a more serious way to gain freedom unconditional love and a equal unity between my partners. Weather they be my future wives or future husbands being open is key. Anyways yes seeking advice opinions thoughts but still a virgin so slow spurts of info would be fantastic. I am single at the moment but that doesn't matter only on week 3 of this self discovery journey. if anyone comes by my message and is interested in who I am just be aware that I am very overwhelmed with excitement because of the new inner freedom. So in a way preoccupied but around just not complete yet to my own knowledge it takes time to fall in love with yourself in a brand new life. Hugs and love to each of you thanks for making this place.
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Hello and welcome!
I am happy to hear about your self-defining journey, glad we can all be apart of it. I am new to the lifestyle as well so please, if you have any questions or just need a friend to talk to, message me anytime!
I am happy to hear about your self-defining journey, glad we can all be apart of it. I am new to the lifestyle as well so please, if you have any questions or just need a friend to talk to, message me anytime!
Greetings Drea,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I looked at your other thread and responded there, hopefully some little thing I said will help. It seems to me that you are having a spiritual struggle, as well as somewhat of a sexual struggle. We will try to help you as much as possible. Just talk to us from your heart and let us know what's on your mind.
I don't think God or Jesus would condemn you for being bi, gay, or poly for that matter, and I don't think they'd want you to be tormented with guilt, shame, or regret either. As long as you treat other people with kindness and honesty, you're doing the right thing.
You're supposed to "do unto others as you would have them do unto you," but that only works if you also "do unto yourself as you would do unto others." So be nice to you. Ask yourself, what is it that *you* want at this time in your life?
I hope we can help you get stuff sorted out.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I looked at your other thread and responded there, hopefully some little thing I said will help. It seems to me that you are having a spiritual struggle, as well as somewhat of a sexual struggle. We will try to help you as much as possible. Just talk to us from your heart and let us know what's on your mind.
I don't think God or Jesus would condemn you for being bi, gay, or poly for that matter, and I don't think they'd want you to be tormented with guilt, shame, or regret either. As long as you treat other people with kindness and honesty, you're doing the right thing.
You're supposed to "do unto others as you would have them do unto you," but that only works if you also "do unto yourself as you would do unto others." So be nice to you. Ask yourself, what is it that *you* want at this time in your life?
I hope we can help you get stuff sorted out.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!