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Hambient

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Hi everyone. I'm a 30-ish mam, exclusive with a poly partner and very new to all this in general (she and I got together while I was in a long distance open relationship which has since ended.) I've never had to really worry about breakups affecting my relationship with someone else and I'm trying to process it all quietly and healthily; the long distance relationship turned abusive (though in retrospect it was never healthy, there was a lot of brainwashing I'm trying to recover from.)

To be pretty frank, I won't have much to contribute to any other discussions probably and am here selfishly. Eventually I'll expand this in an appropriate forum but that is who I am and why I'm here. I hope that doesn't make me undesirable.
 
Greetings Hambient,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I'm sure you'll do fine here; in my opinion everyone is selfish one way or another. I hope we can help you with whatever you need in your relationships. If you start a new thread, perhaps you could post a link to it in this thread and then I'll follow the link.

Glad to have you with us.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Welcome aboard!
 
Thanks for that link -- I have now followed it, and responded there.

Don't worry too much ... I'm sure we can help as things evolve for you.
Regards,
Kevin T.
 
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