Hello

[Ohmygoddess]

I am a 41 year old woman and living with my 28 year old bf. We have been dating for almost three years and just moved in together this past July.

Before we moved in we discussed our wants and needs. We both feel an open relationship is best for us as we both want to explore ourselves together and separately. It's been a Rollercoaster and I am here for many reasons. First and foremost, help. I feel I, or we need a lot of it!

My past experience has been a one sided open relationship and I would attend swingers parties from time to time but never explored other avenues as I hope to do.

Thank you for making this site available. I feel it will be a valuable resource.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Ohmygoddess,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I read through your other thread and responded there briefly. It seems that you and your boyfriend are struggling with your styles of communication. You need to get on the same page.

I hope Polyamory.com helps.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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