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Sweeety39

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Hi ...Don't really know where to start ... Well ..My name is Kat and am 39 year old . I came to these site to find help and make friends ..

Well about three months ago ..I started talking to these married guy on a dating site and we talk for about two week before we meet . That same night we had dinner after we had dinner and talk . I meet his wife since then I have moved in with them .It was only like a two week period after we meet before I move in . Since then thing got complicated because he told his wife that he fallen in love with me and I have fallen in love with him like two months into our relationship .She is OK with that ..She and I have a different type of relationship . I know I love him alot ..But sometime I have my worries about these relationship.
 
Greetings Kat,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Sounds like things are moving pretty fast, the relationship is quite young, only a few months old if I'm reading correctly. If so, try to come to a zen place about the outcome ... it is too soon to put all your eggs in that one basket, so to speak. I hope Polyamory.com can help you to navigate the poly life. Let us know if you have any questions; we'll try to answer.

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Yes ...Sorry ...These relationship is only three month into it and at time I think same that thing move quickly . It probably why I have worried and scared to death about it .
 
I understand. Hopefully it'll all work out.
 
Welcome to the site! I agree that does seem very fast, especially as you're starting to feel worried. Have you talked to your partners about those feelings? Perhaps they can reassure you? If you're feeling like something is wrong, don't ignore it. We should always recognize our feelings.

I hope you find the resources you need here!
 
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