Hello!

[Syncert]

I joined this website per my fiance's suggestion. She realized polyamory was something she wanted and since then I've made efforts to be accommodating. Going through my own turmoils about it and joined in an effort to tap into collective experiences and share my own. Also seeking to make friends and foster new connections. Am thinking about possibly having a new relationship in the future as well. Still analyzing that drive for monogamy in myself and trying to grow through it, which is painful and a learning experience.

A little about me, 23 years old. Work customer service at a life insurance company. Love making dad jokes. Am a musician, make hip hop music. Write rap and compose, it's a rip roaring good time. Feel free to private message me if you're interested in sharing contact details. Always enjoy talking with new people.

I live in Madison Wisconsin, moooooo

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Syncert,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It is quite admirable that you are willing to push yourself and develop a good perspective about polyamory. I hope Polyamory.com helps with that process. I'm sure you can make some friends here, just read and post and it will happen.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.

Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.

If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.

Welcome aboard!

 

[Al99]

Welcome, Syncert! I've only been here a few months but have found 'most everyone welcoming and friendly - with lots of sound advice and solid information. There are a number of us here for the same reason that you have joined - we had a spouse desiring poly and we came here to try to sort it all out - definitely my case, even though I'm about twice you age (my wife, Becky, and her bf, Ben, are both around ten years younger than me). Still the same issues, though, trying to figure out if we can accept poly - to some degree or another - for ourselves. Being older, I am more likely set in my ways - but, I have also had more time to accumulate the tools for dealing with change - which perhaps offset those many years of cultural conditioning.

Again - welcome!

Al