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2into1

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My boyfriend has been writing a girl in the filipine for over twenty yrs . they fell out of touch and she just pops up two weeks ago and he has told me that he wants a polyfidelity relationship so im wondering if he is going enjoy sex with her more than me cause she claims to not been with a man for 14 yrs. :confused:
 
Greetings 2into1,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

If you decide to accept your boyfriend's request for a polyfidelitous relationship, there is no way to tell how it will affect his (and your) sex life. Although, usually in poly relationships we like to think that new partners will just be different, not necessarily "better."

Do you trust your boyfriend to continue to love and value and be with you? You have to be able to trust him if you're going to try this new arrangement. He may experience some NRE with the other woman at first, and NRE is notorious for impairing judgment ...

If you want we can continue to converse and perhaps that will help you ... I always follow the intro threads, so you can always ping me on this thread ... and there'll usually be responses from quite a few people wherever you post.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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