slambamboo
New member
Hey all, after looking at many interesting posts here, I have finally decided to make a profile. My name is R and I am a 27 year old bisexual married to a straight mono male and in a long distance relationship of 2 years with a bisexual mono female. The way I made it to Poly was probably not the most conventional by any means. I had met J, my gf, 2 years ago and after a few months we became romantically involved with each other. My husband had no idea about this relationship until a few days ago. Im not proud of keeping it from him but it is what it is. After a day or two of talking, I have finally realized that I am polyamorous and I dont want to let either one of my lovers go. And my most amazing husband accepts me and the relationship I have with J. He really seems to like her because he says he can see how much she makes me happy and thats really a nice thing to hear from him. I never thought he would be so accepting and loving about this, but he is 
What has really changed my life and my feelings of myself was the fact that I came to a realization that I was having an internal battle with myself and my identity and now that I am open and have figured things out, I finally feel at peace. Anyways, hope this introduction wasnt too long. Im not very sure on how this works, havent been too much of a forum person. Thank you and I cant wait to make friends with you all!!
What has really changed my life and my feelings of myself was the fact that I came to a realization that I was having an internal battle with myself and my identity and now that I am open and have figured things out, I finally feel at peace. Anyways, hope this introduction wasnt too long. Im not very sure on how this works, havent been too much of a forum person. Thank you and I cant wait to make friends with you all!!