Hi! a bit about me, us.

[AL :3]

Hey there I'm AL (34f), married to my husband (31m) since 2019 together since 2017, dating my current bf (28m) for about 4 months now and everything is superb and magical at the moment. My husband has always kept his relationships open and i had been in a handful of poly relationships prior to us getting together, we've also dated together and separately while married, but they unfortunately didn't last long. this is my bfs first time in a non-monogamous dynamic of any sort which i havent actually encountered before. hes so incredibly special to me and i see a future with him as part of our family which hes reciprocated. my kids like him a lot, and hes become a great friend to my husband as well so im hoping to hear from others experiences when it comes to helping somebody new to this continue to feel supported, loved, and important. also ill just peruse the forums and either learn something new or relate so yes, hello!

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings AL,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I am in an MFM V, and the three of us live together. I don't know if your boyfriend lives with you, or if you have any thoughts or plans of moving him in in the future. It sounds like you already have some poly experience under your belt, if so then you know how important communication is. You also know that there is an NRE stage in the beginning of a relationship, you are probably experiencing that with your boyfriend now, so don't be discouraged if that wears off in the future. If I can think of some more tips and tricks I'll let you know.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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