Hello everyone, I have been lurking on here for a few weeks and have decided it is time to join in. I am 47 and happily married to my beautiful wife of 26 years. We have 2 grown offspring that live independently. We started swinging about 10 years ago. The first few years of swinging we were pretty active. That has tapered off and now we only do it a few times a year. I recently met someone who is poly. I was intrigued by his person. I had never heard of poly. I started reading and stumbled onto this site. I am not sure I am poly but I have told my wife & another couple we are involved with,I have feelings for the other woman. My feelings were well received and we are currently trying to figure this out.
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- Thread starter Elcap
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AutumnLeaves
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It sounds like you have a good start going. Good luck and I hope you're able to figure out the things you need to figure out soon!
Greetings Elcap,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
Polyamory is a vast and complex relationship model; there is lots to learn about it. It is good that you found this site; there is a lot of information here. Let us know of any questions or concerns you may have. Glad you could join us!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
Polyamory is a vast and complex relationship model; there is lots to learn about it. It is good that you found this site; there is a lot of information here. Let us know of any questions or concerns you may have. Glad you could join us!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!
Thank you Autumn. I mostly just need to remember to go slow, try and contain NRE so I don't drive everyone else nuts and most importantly make sure everyone is on the same page. Looks like we are all getting together tonight so I hope to make some more progress during that time.
Kdt,from what I have read in my research so far, you can't go wrong with open and honest communication among all parties involved. I feel that will be the key to our success.
Kdt,from what I have read in my research so far, you can't go wrong with open and honest communication among all parties involved. I feel that will be the key to our success.