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Greetings foxyman28,
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I looked at your Relationships Corner thread, and responded with the info I had. Basically, you want to look for a poly group in your area, or at least a poly-friendly event or organization. If you have trouble finding that, you may want to try a poly-friendly dating site. Here's a few that I know of:
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Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I looked at your Relationships Corner thread, and responded with the info I had. Basically, you want to look for a poly group in your area, or at least a poly-friendly event or organization. If you have trouble finding that, you may want to try a poly-friendly dating site. Here's a few that I know of:
- https://www.okcupid.com/
- http://www.polymatchmaker.com/
- http://adultfriendfinder.com/
- https://en.lovoo.com/#/
- https://www.kasidie.com/
- http://www.beyondtwo.com/
- https://www.openminded.com/
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!
Hi there,
My husband and I, we're both men, are just starting out on our polyamory journey and we hope to one day share a relationship with a woman as a loving triad. Any advice would be appreciated.
Looking for a triad is almost doomed to failure. It's very hard to seek and find a partner to share equally between you. That is why this mythical creature is called a Unicorn, and you and your husband are what is known as Unicorn Hunters.
Please read this before anything else. It's long, detailed and very informative.
https://davidlnoble.livejournal.com/176039.html
Not really
We're not looking for a unicorn, we have no expectations of what this relationship will look like other than it involves a woman who is into BDSM, we don't expect this person to be with only us, we don't expect her to have the same feelings for both of us, we are fine with there being more feelings for one of us than the other, all decisions would be discussed with her before being made, we just want to have a relationship with someone who is part of both of our lives, because as parents, our lives are very connected. In the past, I had a female partner who I Dommed by myself who was also married, all of us were consenting to this arrangement. Now I want to date a person who has some form of relationship with my husband too, he feels the same, and who would be okay with being involved sexually with either of us, not necessarily together. We want to find someone who can form a larger family structure with us, who we can both love in our own ways and who can love us. We hope to eventually build a home and a life with a third person, whether that person has other partners is not a problem in the least. Neither of us believe in primary and secondary relationships, we want all relationships to be valued, with none placed above the other. I've read that article before thanks.
We're not looking for a unicorn, we have no expectations of what this relationship will look like other than it involves a woman who is into BDSM, we don't expect this person to be with only us, we don't expect her to have the same feelings for both of us, we are fine with there being more feelings for one of us than the other, all decisions would be discussed with her before being made, we just want to have a relationship with someone who is part of both of our lives, because as parents, our lives are very connected. In the past, I had a female partner who I Dommed by myself who was also married, all of us were consenting to this arrangement. Now I want to date a person who has some form of relationship with my husband too, he feels the same, and who would be okay with being involved sexually with either of us, not necessarily together. We want to find someone who can form a larger family structure with us, who we can both love in our own ways and who can love us. We hope to eventually build a home and a life with a third person, whether that person has other partners is not a problem in the least. Neither of us believe in primary and secondary relationships, we want all relationships to be valued, with none placed above the other. I've read that article before thanks.
Thank you, that's very appreciated. I agree, as long as there's fully informed consent from all involved people, that's all that matters. This idea that there's something wrong with actively looking to form a triad really bugs me, all relationship configurations are valid and as long as everyone involved is consenting and happy with the relationship, that's all that matters.