Hi from Taos, New Mexico

mtnman

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I am a man, married to a woman and I am looking for another woman to possibly join up with us in a beautiful relationship. We are looking for something long-term. Where we live, we have had a lot of bad luck meeting others that are interested in more than a one night stand and we have stopped looking in our close proximities. My wife is cool with everything, but the more and more bad luck we have with new people, the more and more she questions our situation and thinks maybe it's not for us. We never put a name on it. I think that's important to her. I am not fond of other men myself, and neither is my wife. She likes me though. It's been like this ever since we first started dating 10 years ago. I'm 36 and she is 29. If there's anyone out there that's close, shoot me a message. Ever since we moved to Taos from La Jolla, it's been rough. La Jolla was great and we were in a relationship with another woman for about 6 years until she had to leave to get married to someone who wasn't interested in this part of her life. She was 18 when we all met and now she has a child and lives with her new husband. We wish her all the luck. But now we are both frustrated trying to find someone new. I work a lot and pay all the bills, that's how it's always been. It leaves my wife and our third girlfriend time to do whatever they want. She mostly works out and hikes with our dogs. She's happy. I make enough to support a few people and even more now that we live in New Mexico. If you're interested please let us know. We'd love to meet anyone around our age in or around where we live. We like to stay within our age as much as we can. I have a hard time with younger women and she has a hard time with older women. Lol.
 
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Greetings mtnman,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Sorry to hear about the bad luck you have been having, I hope you find a third. I live in Albuquerque but I myself am a male, and the female in our V is not looking for any additional relationships, we are closed. Last time I lived here there was an Albuquerque poly group, I don't know if they're still active. There was also a Santa Fe poly group.

If there's any way I can help, let me know.
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