Hi, I guess?

[Alala]

Hi there.

Apologies for any misspelings that might happend, this is my second language and im trying my best

I'm very new to poly, just working it out this year really. I have great husband who is my very best friend and also very private person who do not wish to be talked about when he's not present, so enough about him. We decided to open marriage and almost immediately I found my now girlfriend, lets call her Princess, cause I do anyway, and Im trying to navigate this new thing.

Figuring out things on my own leaves a lot of space for my anxiety to flare up. A lot of space for things to go wrong. So i thought people with a bit more experience could bring me a bit of peace of mind. You know, like in 'oh im not the only one and its normal to feel that way'.

Ill probably lurk awkwardly for couple of weeks now before writting anything else anyway, have a good Tuesday and see you somwhere on the forum.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Alala,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

You're right, other people do feel that way, it's normal in poly, you are not going crazy. It is not easy to go it alone without any help, so you are wise to turn to this forum for help and support. Take your time and explore our various threads, see which ones call to you. Let us know if you have any questions. It's great to have you with us!

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