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[PillzE]

Hey everyone,

Polyamory is something that's always been on my mind, and I have been conflicted for so many years about developing feelings for others while in committed, monogamous relationships. I have recently come to terms with being poly after some serious deliberation, but I have no idea how to tell my boyfriend of 3 years whom I live with. There isn't anyone else that I'm even remotely interested in right now, but I know myself and judging by past experiences it just makes sense to me. I don't think my boyfriend would approve even though I would be totally fine with him forming other relationships too. I'm kind of freaking out to be honest and I'm trying not to think about it too much but I know this won't go away.

I do have Bipolar Disorder as well (I've been receiving treatment for it for over three years and I am completely stable) which has for some time made me think that that was the reason for these actions and feelings, but I've grown tired of blaming everything on a disorder when in reality it's just who I am.

Anyway, I'm new here and I kind of just want to get to know some people who are like me!

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings PillzE,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I'm sure you will find many sympathetic ears here; it sounds like you have a rough road ahead of you with respect to your boyfriend. Sometimes people can't stay together even if they love each other, but I hope that won't prove to be the case for you.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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[PillzE]

Thanks!