Hi, I'm really new to all of this so please bare with me and please forgive me if I say something the wrong way. Up until two months ago I was a single mother of three. I moved on from a very bad marriage, but was absolutely miserable in my singleness. I can be alone - I'm good at it - but I hate it. Then I met a couple. I had never thought about poly-anything before (except what the nuns teach you), but I have always had a don't judge, to each his own kind of mind-frame. I normally do things the long way around and I'm very careful, but beyond my control I found myself and my children without a place to live. We moved in with this couple and I fell for the guy. He and his girlfriend have been poly-amorous for a while now and were looking for a "second primary". That's me.
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Although I'm very late in saying it ... welcome to our forum. It sounds like your poly experience so far has been a pleasant one, and I'm glad to hear that.
This guy's girlfriend, do you just have a platonic relationship with her? If so, you're in what we usually call a "V" relationship ... the same configuration I'm in. If all three of you are romantically involved with each other, then it's a delta, triangle, or triad. (I know I know, too many labels
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Hope you enjoy your stay with us.
Sincerely,
Kevin T.
Although I'm very late in saying it ... welcome to our forum. It sounds like your poly experience so far has been a pleasant one, and I'm glad to hear that.
This guy's girlfriend, do you just have a platonic relationship with her? If so, you're in what we usually call a "V" relationship ... the same configuration I'm in. If all three of you are romantically involved with each other, then it's a delta, triangle, or triad. (I know I know, too many labels
)Hope you enjoy your stay with us.
Sincerely,
Kevin T.