How to find other partners

[Bubbline]

So my partner (it/its pronouns) is a sex-repulsed asexual and we’re both completely ok w/ the other being in other relationships/having sex with others. Thing is I have no idea how to start a relationship normally, every relationship i’ve had has started out as a close friendship so I have never actually gone through the dating phase of getting to know if you’re compatible/like each other.
Basically I want to have sex with/be in a relationship with someone, but I have no idea how to go about it. Since my ex was also asexual, I’m still a virgin and I feel people wouldn’t want a casual sexual relationship with me because of that. Does anyone have any advice on how to do that? I know this is rambley and vague, but I have no idea how to even start.

 

[TinCup]

Stop by AVEN - SPFA, if you haven't found it yet, to meet people in similar situations.

 

[kdt26417]

Hello Bubbline,

One idea, for starting a sexual relationship with someone, is to look at a poly-friendly dating site. Here are the ones I know of:

• https://bare.dating/
• https://polyfinda.com/
• https://en.lovoo.com/#/
• https://www.okcupid.com/
• https://www.kasidie.com/
• http://www.beyondtwo.com/
• https://www.lavalife.com/
• https://polyamorydate.com/
• https://www.openminded.com/
• http://adultfriendfinder.com/
• http://www.polymatchmaker.com/

There are also dating apps for your phone (such as Tinder).

I'm like you though, I've only dated a few times, mostly when I was in high school, and of the serious, long-term relationships I've ever been in, both started out as just friendships. So, I sympathize with your situation.

Sincerely,
Kevin T.

 

[Evie]

Feeld and Iconist are also dating apps that are pretty good for polyamory.