polypiesofly
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I have a husband who has a girlfriend 
that makes us a "vee" right?
that makes us a "vee" right? 
I'm Autumn
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JaneQSmythe
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I have a husband who has a girlfriend
If you both know about each other and are on board then, yes, it is a "Vee" - with your shared partner (your husband) as the "hinge" and each of you as the "arms". If you and her were romantically/sexually involved as well - then that would be a triad.
But these are just labels. Every situation is different. Technically, I am the "hinge" in a "vee" with my husband and my boyfriend - in reality they were friends before I ever met my boyfriend (my husband's best friend- they are both straight). Since we all love each other but the boys are straight - some would describe that as an "emotional triad, sexual vee". Labels don't matter, people do.
Since my boyfriend has two other girlfriends - you could consider that I am the "arm" in a "vee" with each of them - but I am also dating one of them myself (as is my husband - PLUS she is married - AND I like to play with her husband) - so it can get complicated REAL fast. After a point I just throw up my hands and say "polycule" and let anyone who cares figure it out.
To answer your actual question - yes, that would be a "vee".
JaneQ
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I checked out your other thread and replied to it there. I hope your vee works out well for all three of you!
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Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I checked out your other thread and replied to it there. I hope your vee works out well for all three of you!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!