I’m drowning in monogamy.


New member
I guess that’s the best way to describe me right now. Drowning in monogamy.

I’m 37, lesbian. I just need connections and friends to start.

I’m in a long term relationship with a close minded mono girl. And I’ve been talking to another open minded mono girl but I don’t have a poly relationship yet.

Anyway, if you find yourself in something similar DM me. I’d love to talk.


Official Greeter
Staff member
Greetings Clari,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like you are kind of stuck in a frustrating situation, like you would like to talk to someone about polyamory, but everyone you know is monogamous. I would be happy to be a poly friend, but of course I would be long distance. We can converse on this thread, or if you want to message me privately that would be okay too. There are a number of potential friends for you here, just keep posting and let us know if you have any questions.

Kevin T., "official greeter" :)


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